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There was a bar restaurant were a bunch of us hung out at times, 5-7 people and it was always busy when we wanted a table. They called out the last name and the number of people, so I always used wilde for the name and they would call out wild party of 6. But then we always requested they play this song as well, just because they would, kinda family place, but we were regulars.
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Post by Leena on Mar 16, 2020 13:13:19 GMT 8
The local CW affiliate pre-empted most of Batwoman for the LA mayor's speech announcing more restrictions. The episode of Supergirl after that did at least air in it's entirety.
TW/Spoiler alert: Transphobia... The main villain in this episode is a transphobe that wants Dreamer to hang up her cape...
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Post by Yuki on Mar 16, 2020 14:24:35 GMT 8
Today started out pretty awful.
Well, that started late last night, actually.
I think I mentioned that hubby's trainer is a bit of an ass. It turns out that was a huge understatement.
When he first met his trainer, he seemed like a nice enough guy. Making sure hubby had food, inviting him to dinner before they left, invited him to dinner with his grandma while they've been gone, even cooked for him. Took over driving the really hard stuff, like windy mountain roads in the snow, for the first few days since hubby was new. Seems nice enough, right?
Then hubby said a few times that sometimes the guy would get pissy with him, like if he got something wrong. Okay... probably just doesn't have much patience for training people. Probably shouldn't be a trainer then, but whatever. It's kind of to be expected with a lot of truck drivers. I didn't think much of it, just told hubby to ignore it and focus on learning so he can solo out.
Then hubby started texting me a lot recently saying he's really stressed. I asked why, but he didn't say much. Just that driving on some of the roads are hard, and it's a little scary, and he's tired. Seems understandable. Sometimes he'd say the trainer was still getting pissy, but wouldn't say more than that.
Late last night, the whole thing kind of exploded. He messaged me saying he can't deal with the guy anymore and he wants to quit. I'm like whoa hang on a second, you could ask for a different trainer.. why quit? That seems a bit much, especially after everything we put into that and getting him hired at that company. So you got a trainer with no patience... ask for someone else. But he didn't want to do that.
Later he messaged again, after they were done having the truck loaded, saying they stopped at a truck stop and he grabbed all of his things and walked off the truck because he can't be around that guy.
So I was... kinda mad. Lol he went through all of this and now wants to quit just because his trainer has an attitude?? Why? And he wasn't telling me much, either. So it felt like talking to a brick wall. And normally he talks to me about stuff.
But it was late. The company paid for an Uber for him to get to a hotel for the night, and paid for the hotel for last night, and said they'd talk to him today about getting a greyhound set up to bring him back to Phoenix. And he still didn't say too much because he was tired and stressed, and I was irritated about the whole thing and him not giving me much about why it was that serious that he walked off the truck and therefore wasted all of that time, without trying to figure out another trainer or talking to me or SOMETHING.
So today, when he got up he let me know they got the greyhound set up but the next one doesn't leave until 5am tomorrow so the company paid for another night at the hotel and everything.
And he FINALLY talked to me.
And holy shit, this guy he was stuck with has some problems!!
Basically, between being super nice to my husband, when he wasn't being super nice, he was yelling. Like, severe anger management problems yelling. Yelled any time my husband didn't already know something (that he wasn't taught yet). Yell any time he made a small mistake. Belittling.. telling my husband he's an idiot, and a baby, and that he doesn't listen. He'd be doing things like... he'd get out to guide my husband into the dock, like tell him which way to turn and how much and when to go and stop because that's easier than my husband having to constantly get out to look. No correction... no "You turned too far this way" nothing. Just acting like everything was fine, and would go on to the next instruction. And then the truck would be crooked. And then he'd scream at my husband for it. But to me, that sounds like the trainer's fault, since he was the one telling hubby which way to turn and how much.. and didn't once correct?? But somehow it's hubby's fault that it went in crooked? But that's how he was about everything, blaming my husband for his own mistakes all the time. And then belittling him when he did make a small mistake of his own. Just basically... exploding over everything.
And I guess it was getting worse and worse. At one point, he threatened to punch my husband.
And the reason why he didn't talk to me about any of this, was because 90% of the time, the guy was looking over his shoulder at all of the messages he was sending to me... because the guy was super paranoid about looking bad. So instead of being able to tell me "I'm stressed because this guy just said he was going to PUNCH ME" he had to say "I'm stressed because driving on these roads is hard"
He didn't ask for another trainer, because he was afraid of how angry the guy would get about that, and then beings stuck in the truck with this guy who has violent anger problems, in the middle of nowhere.
He walked off the truck because this guy was threatening him, and he either had to stick it out for another week and a half with this piece of shit... or walk off there, while they were at a truck stop and near a terminal, so he wouldn't be stranded.
So I'm pissed. This guy seems to not have had the best track record. When they first assigned my husband to him, the conversation between this guy and the company, was about one of his previous trainees who failed the solo out test at the end of training, and the guy was getting angry even then and saying how that wasn't his fault the guy failed. (Something tells me it was, because this guy wasn't even teaching hubby anything he needed to know. He was too busy wanting to go to bars to stare at young college girls, or strip clubs. Or yelling.) And the trainee he had before hubby quit. I wonder why...
So I think they know this guy is a giant fucking douchebag.
And my guess is, he's afraid of looking bad because he probably already looked bad for the last two people he was supposed to train, but failed at.
If that's the case, I'm mad they even gave him another chance and assigned him to my husband.
But, they want to talk to him about what happened when he gets back to Phoenix. And he's going to tell them all of that. So hopefully, that coupled with the last two trainees, will mean that this guy won't fucking get anymore trainees because he has no business training... and he sounds potentially dangerous if he got irritated enough times at someone. He has that kind of abusive pattern, and I wouldn't doubt he hits his girlfriend, or has hit girlfriends in the past.
But as far as truck driving goes, I don't know now. I guess first we have to wait and see what this company has to say when he gets back. Technically, he quit. He quit when he walked off the truck, and now they're having to pay to get him back home. So I'm sure they won't be thrilled. But if it is known that this guy is shit, then maybe they'll offer him another trainer and let him try again? Although I'm not sure if he'd want to take it right now if they did. I think he's a little shaken up from all of that, and might end up needing a break now because of it. So, depending on how this affects him, this shit could have messed up that plan for us.. all because they wanted to give a violent douchebag another chance to train someone.
So I don't know how things will go from here. We might be back at square one, I don't know.
But our roommates are being understanding. I think they want to try to help us fight the whole thing somehow, although I'm not sure what they mean by that. I think they mean legally? But I'm not sure. It would be hubby's word against that guy's, anyway. No proof of anything of course.
But they have stated over and over that we're always welcome to stay as long as we need, or even to come back if anything were to happen, because they know we don't have other people. So we'll be okay.. I'm just pissed.
That was the bad part of my day.
The good part of my day was that it was my birthday, and I hadn't talked to my sister in a while.. I guess she's been busy. I mean, I'd assume so, with work and a baby and being pregnant, too. So it's been months. But, she called to wish me a happy birthday and catch up for a few minutes. And she didn't forget to call me by my name, even though it's still relatively new to her, and she hasn't talked to me in months. She didn't forget, and she treats it like it's always been my name. So that was nice. For all of the shitty things she's done before, I do think she's actually starting to get better now, as an adult. She'd probably still find a way to piss me off if I was around her every day, though, I'm sure. lol. But at least she gets my name right and doesn't act weird about it.
Aaaand when she is able to buy me gifts for holidays or whatever, she knows me pretty well.. so I have to hand that to her, too. She didn't this year, but last year she sent me stuff and it was a set of salt and pepper shakers that are shaped like watering cans. And I do like growing plants, and I had been telling hubby that I wanted a unique salt and pepper shaker set eventually.. so I love those.
But that's off topic.
The roommates also took me out to eat, today. Facebook told them it was my birthday, and they know I'm here by myself, and the one has been bugging me because he's been wanting to buy something for me anyway, like when we went to the mall recently, and I wouldn't let him because I paid for everything. So he felt accomplished that he told them to put it all on one check so I couldn't pay for it. Lol.
So, that was nice, too. Especially after this shit for a day that happened earlier.
But we are okay. And hubby is okay. A little shaken up, but okay. He video chatted with me for a few minutes, mainly because he was trying to get my sister to group video chat with us to get on her nerves, but she didn't answer it... but he seemed in good spirits despite everything. And he was talking to Jax, which made Jax wander around the phone trying to find him. So I think he's fine now.. now that he's away from the guy. He's just ready to get home now, though, and start figuring out what we need to do next... and to see me and Jax. lol
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Post by Trinity on Mar 17, 2020 9:57:32 GMT 8
Today started out pretty awful. Well, that started late last night, actually. I think I mentioned that hubby's trainer is a bit of an ass. It turns out that was a huge understatement. When he first met his trainer, he seemed like a nice enough guy. Making sure hubby had food, inviting him to dinner before they left, invited him to dinner with his grandma while they've been gone, even cooked for him. Took over driving the really hard stuff, like windy mountain roads in the snow, for the first few days since hubby was new. Seems nice enough, right? Then hubby said a few times that sometimes the guy would get pissy with him, like if he got something wrong. Okay... probably just doesn't have much patience for training people. Probably shouldn't be a trainer then, but whatever. It's kind of to be expected with a lot of truck drivers. I didn't think much of it, just told hubby to ignore it and focus on learning so he can solo out. Then hubby started texting me a lot recently saying he's really stressed. I asked why, but he didn't say much. Just that driving on some of the roads are hard, and it's a little scary, and he's tired. Seems understandable. Sometimes he'd say the trainer was still getting pissy, but wouldn't say more than that. Late last night, the whole thing kind of exploded. He messaged me saying he can't deal with the guy anymore and he wants to quit. I'm like whoa hang on a second, you could ask for a different trainer.. why quit? That seems a bit much, especially after everything we put into that and getting him hired at that company. So you got a trainer with no patience... ask for someone else. But he didn't want to do that. Later he messaged again, after they were done having the truck loaded, saying they stopped at a truck stop and he grabbed all of his things and walked off the truck because he can't be around that guy. So I was... kinda mad. Lol he went through all of this and now wants to quit just because his trainer has an attitude?? Why? And he wasn't telling me much, either. So it felt like talking to a brick wall. And normally he talks to me about stuff. But it was late. The company paid for an Uber for him to get to a hotel for the night, and paid for the hotel for last night, and said they'd talk to him today about getting a greyhound set up to bring him back to Phoenix. And he still didn't say too much because he was tired and stressed, and I was irritated about the whole thing and him not giving me much about why it was that serious that he walked off the truck and therefore wasted all of that time, without trying to figure out another trainer or talking to me or SOMETHING. So today, when he got up he let me know they got the greyhound set up but the next one doesn't leave until 5am tomorrow so the company paid for another night at the hotel and everything. And he FINALLY talked to me. And holy shit, this guy he was stuck with has some problems!! Basically, between being super nice to my husband, when he wasn't being super nice, he was yelling. Like, severe anger management problems yelling. Yelled any time my husband didn't already know something (that he wasn't taught yet). Yell any time he made a small mistake. Belittling.. telling my husband he's an idiot, and a baby, and that he doesn't listen. He'd be doing things like... he'd get out to guide my husband into the dock, like tell him which way to turn and how much and when to go and stop because that's easier than my husband having to constantly get out to look. No correction... no "You turned too far this way" nothing. Just acting like everything was fine, and would go on to the next instruction. And then the truck would be crooked. And then he'd scream at my husband for it. But to me, that sounds like the trainer's fault, since he was the one telling hubby which way to turn and how much.. and didn't once correct?? But somehow it's hubby's fault that it went in crooked? But that's how he was about everything, blaming my husband for his own mistakes all the time. And then belittling him when he did make a small mistake of his own. Just basically... exploding over everything. And I guess it was getting worse and worse. At one point, he threatened to punch my husband. And the reason why he didn't talk to me about any of this, was because 90% of the time, the guy was looking over his shoulder at all of the messages he was sending to me... because the guy was super paranoid about looking bad. So instead of being able to tell me "I'm stressed because this guy just said he was going to PUNCH ME" he had to say "I'm stressed because driving on these roads is hard" He didn't ask for another trainer, because he was afraid of how angry the guy would get about that, and then beings stuck in the truck with this guy who has violent anger problems, in the middle of nowhere. He walked off the truck because this guy was threatening him, and he either had to stick it out for another week and a half with this piece of shit... or walk off there, while they were at a truck stop and near a terminal, so he wouldn't be stranded. So I'm pissed. This guy seems to not have had the best track record. When they first assigned my husband to him, the conversation between this guy and the company, was about one of his previous trainees who failed the solo out test at the end of training, and the guy was getting angry even then and saying how that wasn't his fault the guy failed. (Something tells me it was, because this guy wasn't even teaching hubby anything he needed to know. He was too busy wanting to go to bars to stare at young college girls, or strip clubs. Or yelling.) And the trainee he had before hubby quit. I wonder why... So I think they know this guy is a giant fucking douchebag. And my guess is, he's afraid of looking bad because he probably already looked bad for the last two people he was supposed to train, but failed at. If that's the case, I'm mad they even gave him another chance and assigned him to my husband. But, they want to talk to him about what happened when he gets back to Phoenix. And he's going to tell them all of that. So hopefully, that coupled with the last two trainees, will mean that this guy won't fucking get anymore trainees because he has no business training... and he sounds potentially dangerous if he got irritated enough times at someone. He has that kind of abusive pattern, and I wouldn't doubt he hits his girlfriend, or has hit girlfriends in the past. But as far as truck driving goes, I don't know now. I guess first we have to wait and see what this company has to say when he gets back. Technically, he quit. He quit when he walked off the truck, and now they're having to pay to get him back home. So I'm sure they won't be thrilled. But if it is known that this guy is shit, then maybe they'll offer him another trainer and let him try again? Although I'm not sure if he'd want to take it right now if they did. I think he's a little shaken up from all of that, and might end up needing a break now because of it. So, depending on how this affects him, this shit could have messed up that plan for us.. all because they wanted to give a violent douchebag another chance to train someone. So I don't know how things will go from here. We might be back at square one, I don't know. But our roommates are being understanding. I think they want to try to help us fight the whole thing somehow, although I'm not sure what they mean by that. I think they mean legally? But I'm not sure. It would be hubby's word against that guy's, anyway. No proof of anything of course. But they have stated over and over that we're always welcome to stay as long as we need, or even to come back if anything were to happen, because they know we don't have other people. So we'll be okay.. I'm just pissed. That was the bad part of my day. The good part of my day was that it was my birthday, and I hadn't talked to my sister in a while.. I guess she's been busy. I mean, I'd assume so, with work and a baby and being pregnant, too. So it's been months. But, she called to wish me a happy birthday and catch up for a few minutes. And she didn't forget to call me by my name, even though it's still relatively new to her, and she hasn't talked to me in months. She didn't forget, and she treats it like it's always been my name. So that was nice. For all of the shitty things she's done before, I do think she's actually starting to get better now, as an adult. She'd probably still find a way to piss me off if I was around her every day, though, I'm sure. lol. But at least she gets my name right and doesn't act weird about it. Aaaand when she is able to buy me gifts for holidays or whatever, she knows me pretty well.. so I have to hand that to her, too. She didn't this year, but last year she sent me stuff and it was a set of salt and pepper shakers that are shaped like watering cans. And I do like growing plants, and I had been telling hubby that I wanted a unique salt and pepper shaker set eventually.. so I love those. But that's off topic. The roommates also took me out to eat, today. Facebook told them it was my birthday, and they know I'm here by myself, and the one has been bugging me because he's been wanting to buy something for me anyway, like when we went to the mall recently, and I wouldn't let him because I paid for everything. So he felt accomplished that he told them to put it all on one check so I couldn't pay for it. Lol. So, that was nice, too. Especially after this shit for a day that happened earlier. But we are okay. And hubby is okay. A little shaken up, but okay. He video chatted with me for a few minutes, mainly because he was trying to get my sister to group video chat with us to get on her nerves, but she didn't answer it... but he seemed in good spirits despite everything. And he was talking to Jax, which made Jax wander around the phone trying to find him. So I think he's fine now.. now that he's away from the guy. He's just ready to get home now, though, and start figuring out what we need to do next... and to see me and Jax. lol I totally missed all of this. First I hope he talks to the company management and doesn't ptsd and anxiety out over it because of an abusive guy. And by the way I had yet another nightmare last night of my ex boss. Second you don't throw a career away over one asshole, then the asshole wins and you lose permanently, demonic right there, total bullshit. So he is going to need some recovery time and special care, and hopefully a new trainer. Hopefully he doesn't virus out. And they better not have the trainer in the room with him when he needs to speak out. The anxiety thing is important. He's 3/4's trained now, go for the goodies. Dang.
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Post by Trinity on Mar 17, 2020 10:18:11 GMT 8
And darn it, HAPPY BIRTHDAY belated....
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Mar 17, 2020 10:23:11 GMT 8
Today started out pretty awful. All he has to do is ask for a different trainer, they have time and money invested and aren't going to be so fast to just let him go. That two others quit on this guy pretty much has him in the three strikes area, and maybe they were just hoping he would mellow out. Then again the trainer might be having more than just his usual problems, maybe his girlfreind left him or something, maybe the company has been warning him this is his last chance. But regardless, hubby needs to sit back a bit and ask for another trainer, no sense in letting some dipwad ruin it for him. Driving is a tough enough job without having someone paranoid and yelling all the time for shit that isn't his fault. He said he liked it to start and only when the asshole got to be more asshole did it get bad, once on the road for his own and then with you along he should do just fine. Lots of couples out there do the ride together thing because it makes life on the road and in traffic so much easier. Tell him to stick with it because he has so much invested already, not in money but in time. Too close to the payoff to stop now.
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Post by Yuki on Mar 17, 2020 10:26:07 GMT 8
I totally missed all of this. First I hope he talks to the company management and doesn't ptsd and anxiety out over it because of an abusive guy. And by the way I had yet another nightmare last night of my ex boss. Second you don't throw a career away over one asshole, then the asshole wins and you lose permanently, demonic right there, total bullshit. So he is going to need some recovery time and special care, and hopefully a new trainer. Hopefully he doesn't virus out. And they better not have the trainer in the room with him when he needs to speak out. The anxiety thing is important. He's 3/4's trained now, go for the goodies. Dang. Yeah, we've talked about all of it since yesterday, and he's had time to think about everything. He's still going to do truck driving. He's calmed down and realized that it was just one asshole. He'll be back here around 2/2:30 in the morning, and then once they open they wanted him to come talk to them anyway. I'm sure the guy won't be there, he's still out driving loads around, so he won't be back to Phoenix. The plan for that is to see if the company will be understanding and give him another shot with a different trainer.. or if they won't, then back to the drawing board of trying for another company. Which still changes plans around some, but not as drastically. So from what I can tell, he seems to have bounced back and is already ready to try again. I wasn't sure if he'd be able to right away or not, but he doesn't seem as bothered today. So, goals remain the same. I just hope they, at the very least, do not put anyone else with that guy. I would think that they wouldn't, since he keeps causing people to quit, but we'll see. No one deserves that as a trainer, especially if they have to be stuck living on a truck with him. We'll also see about the virus... the roommates just offered to pick him up from the bus stop when he gets back so he doesn't have to ride an uber. I let them know that he's on a bus of coughing people, but they still offered.. although I know one of them is slightly nervous about the virus in general, because he does have a few health conditions that could make it a little worse for him. But I did tell them, and they won't take no for an answer lol. I think they wanted to talk to him about the thing with his trainer.
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Post by Yuki on Mar 17, 2020 11:06:23 GMT 8
And darn it, HAPPY BIRTHDAY belated.... lol, that made me laugh. Thanks
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Post by RAYtch on Mar 21, 2020 23:27:19 GMT 8
Seeing the buds starting on my garden plants! Spring is on the horizon! what made me unhappy? - I can’t think of anything.
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Post by Leena on Apr 23, 2020 4:37:12 GMT 8
Finally got back to bed. It turns out what woke me up so early was probably an earthquake or aftershock. Slept the best I have in while, had a vivid dream that I was at the grocery store and they were almost out of everything and people were fighting over things and no one was wearing masks or socially distancing. Normally, I'd call it a nightmare, but I need my dreams to be realistic or I realize they are dreams and wake up. Finally they are starting to reflect the current situation.
Missed my morning HRT because I slept too long. Doesn't really matter that much in the larger picture, though won't help my stability.
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Post by Leena on Dec 31, 2020 0:59:30 GMT 8
Was reorganizing my closet and came across a pair of size 11 high heels I bought a long time ago but could barely squeeze into. Fit almost perfectly now. The left one has a big gash in the heel though. This does mean my feet have actually shrunk, and I might be able to buy shoes in a physical store.
I've really been missing doing that at Payless, though they have reopened online at least. I had noticed some of the size 12 ones I bought at their closing sale really are too big, and was wondering why I bought them because I did try them on.
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Dec 31, 2020 10:08:38 GMT 8
Once you get to a size eleven it seems like the number of ones available go up, better fashion choices. Eleven is kinda tight for me and eleven and a half are kinda too big, it depends on the shoe as to the ones that fit, but I noticed there is a lot more to choose from in eleven than anything bigger.
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Post by Becky on Jan 3, 2021 21:23:53 GMT 8
Was reorganizing my closet and came across a pair of size 11 high heels I bought a long time ago but could barely squeeze into. Fit almost perfectly now. The left one has a big gash in the heel though. This does mean my feet have actually shrunk, and I might be able to buy shoes in a physical store. I've really been missing doing that at Payless, though they have reopened online at least. I had noticed some of the size 12 ones I bought at their closing sale really are too big, and was wondering why I bought them because I did try them on. LOL, I'm a women's 14 extra wide. My choices are almost entirely kinky drag queen boots or black orthopedics. Thank goodness for online mail order - there are at least a few options there.
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Post by Becky on Jan 3, 2021 21:31:49 GMT 8
So, a few days ago, my wife and I were helping a good friend install and paint a wall-to-wall bookcase. Her husband, who's not really into her projects, went out to have lunch with some old friends. He apparently did a liquid lunch, because he called 4 hours later to say he needed to be picked up and driven home.
When he got back, I could see that he was INCREDIBLY drunk. He came over, and started hugging and kissing me. I'm sure he thought he was being funny, but it was AGGRESSIVE hugging and kissing.
I felt his stubble, his hot breath, his muscles and masculine body and...
...I absolutely HATED every moment.
I've been questioning my sexuality recently, so the good part is that this put any question of being into masc-presenting folks to bed. I'm totally sapphic, y'all. I'm all about women, demi-women, and pretty boyz.
Of course, an easier label for my sexuality would be "married." But it's good to know how I fit into the big picture of gender and sexuality.
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Post by Trinity on Jan 4, 2021 5:43:37 GMT 8
So, a few days ago, my wife and I were helping a good friend install and paint a wall-to-wall bookcase. Her husband, who's not really into her projects, went out to have lunch with some old friends. He apparently did a liquid lunch, because he called 4 hours later to say he needed to be picked up and driven home. When he got back, I could see that he was INCREDIBLY drunk. He came over, and started hugging and kissing me. I'm sure he thought he was being funny, but it was AGGRESSIVE hugging and kissing. I felt his stubble, his hot breath, his muscles and masculine body and... ...I absolutely HATED every moment. I've been questioning my sexuality recently, so the good part is that this put any question of being into masc-presenting folks to bed. I'm totally sapphic, y'all. I'm all about women, demi-women, and pretty boyz. Of course, an easier label for my sexuality would be "married." But it's good to know how I fit into the big picture of gender and sexuality. My experience with that would have been much, much different. My body would have taken over and the feelings would have been overpowering and last for decades. And as a married person the guilt over it would be very difficult even while fighting it off It's happened before with me, each time literally fighting it off, and then wishing I hadn't, except that I totally had to, and would never cheat on my wife, so there is a conflict between body and love.
Good for you, more answered questions!
Love the "married" line too.
You're lucky Becky. And your wife would have decked that guy....
Hugs.
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