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Post by Kelly on Dec 31, 2014 17:04:18 GMT 8
I went to my 20 yr HS reunion last November.. And found out most of the girls had always considered me one of them - the fact that at least 1/2 of them had worn bras I'd fitted was surely some kind of sign..
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Post by LivingTheDream on Jan 1, 2015 8:05:09 GMT 8
That's the same with me too Shan. I've had several call me a g/f, you know, like one of the girls. But I never suppressed it, it made me smile all day.. I didn't even know why at the time, I hadn't explored the trans reason yet, I just liked it for some odd reason I thought. I got called one of the girls a few times in my distant past and it made me smile then too…I later went the wrong direction and did suppress it, in some ways, it kills me how close I was to unraveling all of this so long ago... I used to be almost one of the girls at work too years ago. They said that when they asked me to go to a comedy show/bar, oh he is basically one of the girls so he can go. Actually didn't bother me idt, was nice to be included. Proceeded to have a great time (to great of a time..drank wayyyy too much booze lol, lost my phone in the toilet, basically made a fool of myself when we went to work to eat afterwards, omg, didn't live that down for quite awhile, still gets brought up occasionally, things I said to my boss while hammered! I think I lost that status because of that )
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Post by Deleted on Jan 1, 2015 8:56:34 GMT 8
I got called one of the girls a few times in my distant past and it made me smile then too…I later went the wrong direction and did suppress it, in some ways, it kills me how close I was to unraveling all of this so long ago... I used to be almost one of the girls at work too years ago. They said that when they asked me to go to a comedy show/bar, oh he is basically one of the girls so he can go. Actually didn't bother me idt, was nice to be included. Proceeded to have a great time (to great of a time..drank wayyyy too much booze lol, lost my phone in the toilet, basically made a fool of myself when we went to work to eat afterwards, omg, didn't live that down for quite awhile, still gets brought up occasionally, things I said to my boss while hammered! I think I lost that status because of that ) We've all been there and done that! Some of the stupidest and most mortifying times of my life was when I was under the influence of alcohol!
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Post by LivingTheDream on Jan 1, 2015 14:09:06 GMT 8
Lol lesson learned: Don't drink too much with co-workers!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 7:56:46 GMT 8
Getting back to "What kind of non binary are you?" I prefer to be seen as my own person who is passionate about projecting myself as legitimate a non binary persona as possible while having a no nonsense personality, one who doesn't care for drama, hates flattery and I refuse to take abuse especially from binary types. I'm not into masochism, have always stood up to abusers with a rigid spine, so I consider it pathetic that those who complain of having been abased and denigrated would even consider turning back to any of their abusers and asking for yet another potential shit-wich. But I see it happening and it doesn't warrant any respect from me ever. In my mindset there is more to friendship than just tacit approval, it's about a certain chemistry that has to be present or it isn't going to happen. No doubt this is why i am such a loner in the TG community!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2015 22:42:09 GMT 8
Getting back to "What kind of non binary are you?" I prefer to be seen as my own person who is passionate about projecting myself as legitimate a non binary persona as possible while having a no nonsense personality, one who doesn't care for drama, hates flattery and I refuse to take abuse especially from binary types. I'm not into masochism, have always stood up to abusers with a rigid spine, so I consider it pathetic that those who complain of having been abased and denigrated would even consider turning back to any of their abusers and asking for yet another potential shit-wich. But I see it happening and it doesn't warrant any respect from me ever. In my mindset there is more to friendship than just tacit approval, it's about a certain chemistry that has to be present or it isn't going to happen. No doubt this is why i am such a loner in the TG community! This morning I logged on to the former site for the first time since I posted my goodbye letter, I took note of the people who had taken abuse from the binary, more-trans-than-thou, mean-girl-assholes who apparently didn't get enough and have gone back for more, it's pretty sickening really! Although there will be a lot of self justification for it, I can assure everyone that Bill Larson is laughing up his sleeve at their obvious pathetic weakness with grins and nods all around to his mod staff. I deleted my account there and will be spending a lot less time here as well, there are a few who just don't rate any respect from me because they obviously don't respect themselves.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 3, 2015 1:50:35 GMT 8
Getting back to "What kind of non binary are you?" I prefer to be seen as my own person who is passionate about projecting myself as legitimate a non binary persona as possible while having a no nonsense personality, one who doesn't care for drama, hates flattery and I refuse to take abuse especially from binary types. I'm not into masochism, have always stood up to abusers with a rigid spine, so I consider it pathetic that those who complain of having been abased and denigrated would even consider turning back to any of their abusers and asking for yet another potential shit-wich. But I see it happening and it doesn't warrant any respect from me ever. In my mindset there is more to friendship than just tacit approval, it's about a certain chemistry that has to be present or it isn't going to happen. No doubt this is why i am such a loner in the TG community! This morning I logged on to the former site for the first time since I posted my goodbye letter, I took note of the people who had taken abuse from the binary, more-trans-than-thou, mean-girl-assholes who apparently didn't get enough and have gone back for more, it's pretty sickening really! Although there will be a lot of self justification for it, I can assure everyone that Bill Larson is laughing up his sleeve at their obvious pathetic weakness with grins and nods all around to his mod staff. I deleted my account there and will be spending a lot less time here as well, there are a few who just don't rate any respect from me because they obviously don't respect themselves. I remain, but its in your face genderqueer and the avatar shows that clearly.
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