Anato
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Post by Anato on Nov 28, 2015 10:32:38 GMT 8
Personally I'm semi-out. I tell people I know are open to learning about this stuff or already get it.
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Post by Ayla on Nov 28, 2015 11:46:16 GMT 8
I am out to clients, colleagues, friends and family where I have spoken to them in person. I normally preface it with my need to be authentic and to not pretend to be someone other than who I am as I think it would be disrespecting our relationship; I have not made a public statement eg on social media.
I will be seeing my 2 brothers at Xmas and they will be the last family members who are yet to know. Really hasn't been a big deal to anyone. Their reactions vary: "Nice joke" (it wasn't); that "it couldn't be the case" given their knowledge of me (father); concern - "are you ok? are your family ok?" (the majority); they seek more information/understanding; they say something like ("I thought something was going on!"); ask "who else have you told"; say "that this doesn't change (their) view of me" or impact their friendship.
I have over thought it and its taken many years - I always feel relieved once I have come out to someone. I have had enough acting to last me several life times.
Safe travels
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Post by EchelonHunt on Nov 28, 2015 11:58:19 GMT 8
I am out online (here, Reddit and social media) and in real life to close friends and at LGBT events.
My family know a little bit but not the full details, just that I want the freedom to wear whichever clothes I want, it doesn't make me any less of a boy, "regret" transitioning or invalidate my need to finish transitioning.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2015 12:56:02 GMT 8
I am out online (here, Reddit and social media) and in real life to close friends and at LGBT events. My family know a little bit but not the full details, just that I want the freedom to wear whichever clothes I want, it doesn't make me any less of a boy, "regret" transitioning or invalidate my need to finish transitioning. I totally agree. I am out to some old friends that I know I can trust. Those that Knew me from the good old days, either Trans fans, transbians, and so on. As for family, Screw them. If they can't figure it out or too stupid to see it then.... I will tell them no lies or secrets. Maybe they should pay a little ore attention.
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Post by Trinity on Nov 28, 2015 14:02:12 GMT 8
Aa full out. Florida career full out. Home full out. Social ny workplace subtle and out nonverbally.
On line full out and public. Theater district full out as Trinity presenting sh'e no wigs. In privacy full out nonbinary sh'e. Medically full out transsexual to the docs and gatekeepers.
Stealth male to transphobic reletives empowered to hurt or wound my wife, i wont permit it, they dont need to know.
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kdkorz10211
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Post by kdkorz10211 on Nov 29, 2015 11:11:23 GMT 8
I'm out to friends, immediate family, and to classmates as it comes up. I am not out to extended family or coworkers.
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Durka
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Post by Durka on Nov 30, 2015 4:25:07 GMT 8
Last night I came out as non-binary to one of my brothers and my best friend. We were having drinks, and the topic turned round to the whole trans thing. It seemed like the right time. They were both very supportive, and I feel it's a weight off my shoulders. I'm also out to a few trusted online friends.
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Post by Trinity on Nov 30, 2015 5:02:14 GMT 8
Thats huge and its great. Its always pretty nervewracking. Good for you
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2015 17:35:23 GMT 8
Last night I came out as non-binary to one of my brothers and my best friend. We were having drinks, and the topic turned round to the whole trans thing. It seemed like the right time. They were both very supportive, and I feel it's a weight off my shoulders. I'm also out to a few trusted online friends. That's awesome, Durka! I'm proud of you.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2015 17:41:11 GMT 8
I'm out to my family and will tell my relatives and friends when I meet them. I will change my name so I figured I have to explain. It will be interesting to see how people react.
Last week my dad called me to let me know about two different trans documentaries that he thought the whole family needed to watch. It meant a lot to me.
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Durka
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Post by Durka on Dec 1, 2015 6:35:39 GMT 8
Cheers guys. I'm just taking baby steps right now, but it feels better
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Post by Maka on Apr 21, 2017 17:42:18 GMT 8
I'm out online here, to my partner, and to my girlfriend from those school times. All were/are very supportive;) I'm lucky.
Feel the need to out to my other (male) old friend, and mom. And I'll be settled.
Don't feel the need to out publicly or to larger audience, though if asked directly I'll be fine telling about me strait away.
Don't feel the need to hide myself, that's basically it.
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Post by Jennifer (Tink) on Apr 30, 2017 7:01:22 GMT 8
I'm fully out. I don't push it in people's face but if they approach the subject I am open an honest.
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Post by Valerie on Apr 30, 2017 7:20:08 GMT 8
Well my best friends know, few other friends, few coworkers, and my few my family know. Like I'll openly talk about how I feel gender wise, but idk like I won't flat out talk about it, and I don't be very fem around family. Umm idk haha yea I'm not that out as nonbinary, but only because I feel like I don't want to it have to come out I already went through the whole coming out as gay a few years ago I don't see why I have to do it again as nonbinary! I'm just present as I wish and just be me.
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Luyas
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Pronouns: THEM, it, yas, me, lu
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Orientation: I am more into females but a little males and females i mean they can/arnt/they are like me so not confident in gender or thet are (so not female) . Also though I'm really confused :(
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I am more into females but a little males and females i mean they can/arnt/they are like me so not confident in gender or thet are (so not female) . Also though I'm really confused :(
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Post by Luyas on May 6, 2017 9:51:45 GMT 8
Ill tell people when I'm angry at them or I trust them
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