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Post by Onyx on Nov 28, 2014 0:38:12 GMT 8
the undead one. i'm a complete genderless undead. but you can call me whatever floats your boat as long as you dont call me "it"
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Post by Deleted on Nov 28, 2014 0:47:23 GMT 8
While I respect everyone's wishes, There is no way that I can keep up and remember these. Like it or not, they is what I tend to use. I could give a ___ what you use for me, it changes nothing, I don't take it as meaning anything. Person comes to mind, regardless of how we speak, pronouns are very far down my list of priorities. We are.., I take no offense, I really don't think anyone should, unless it is used in a manner to hurt someone. To intentionally hurt them. Otherwise, I breeze right on by them and look at what the conversation is without really checking to see if a pronoun is correct. So if I screw them up, it's just because I regard them with little care, but not to offend anyone. I suppose it's because I don't care what you call me. I just can't place that much importance on them, even though I realize they are to some. The conversation, the comments mean so much more than a pronoun ever could to me. So please forgive me if I screw them up, I don't mean to, and I do try to remember them. You're people first, have something to say, the rest is technicalities and political correctness. I tend to move past technicalities and political correctness? Me? (I do try, I really do) Ativan I don't mind being called by them/their/they pronouns. I prefer feminine, but I'm not going to complain as long as no one uses masculine. Because then I feel like they're using pronouns that are completely antithetical to my core being, and that just doesn't sit right with me.
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Post by Taka on Nov 28, 2014 16:59:40 GMT 8
pikachu doesn't want to be a boy, and sooty doesn't want to be a girl (even if it secretly is one at times). but i think that's not too difficult to understand.
if mistakes are made, it would never be because of impoliteness. unless the comment is rude that way.
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Post by Whisper on Dec 3, 2014 9:13:51 GMT 8
pronouns used to bother me. i tried the sie hir a bit, but in the end found them tedious and less useful to real people around me.
they and them felt somewhat distant, when i tried them.
in the end, i am okay with he and she, even for when describing me.
although too much he, can upset me. especially all of the real man, or manly talk.
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Post by Taka on Dec 3, 2014 16:59:33 GMT 8
let's try to have some real man talk, shall we?
i think most here would fail at that though. does anyone have any idea what a real man is anyway? well, other than rambo of course. but he's fictional.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 3, 2014 18:42:15 GMT 8
let's try to have some real man talk, shall we? i think most here would fail at that though. does anyone have any idea what a real man is anyway? well, other than rambo of course. but he's fictional. Integrity. What about woman? Love? But I guess it's off topic..
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JDLR
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Post by JDLR on Dec 4, 2014 0:19:05 GMT 8
I think I prefer "they, them, their," but I am not offended by pronouns. I realize that on first glance most people will see a male. And I also realize that many people will get a female vibe when they interact with me. There was a friend back at the old place who called me his/her "tranny godmother" :-) but used the male pronouns ... and that was okay!
Toward the end of my run there, I became increasingly uncomfortable with the female pronouns, not because I lacked identification, but because I was being emotionally battered and was becoming very much more vulnerable. My male half was having to buck up and take the abuse as my girl inside withdrew.
She is not really back out yet. May never be again.
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Post by Whisper on Dec 4, 2014 3:41:00 GMT 8
let's try to have some real man talk, shall we? i think most here would fail at that though. does anyone have any idea what a real man is anyway? well, other than rambo of course. but he's fictional. that pic of putin on a horse, shirtless. The putinator. whisper
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Post by Taka on Dec 4, 2014 5:26:29 GMT 8
putin doesn't count, he's trying to prove something. real men have nothing to prove, they simply are. and act.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2014 5:30:06 GMT 8
putin doesn't count, he's trying to prove something. real men have nothing to prove, they simply are. and act. Amen!
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Post by Deleted on Dec 4, 2014 6:04:50 GMT 8
let's try to have some real man talk, shall we? i think most here would fail at that though. does anyone have any idea what a real man is anyway? well, other than rambo of course. but he's fictional. that pic of putin on a horse, shirtless. The putinator. whisper You know your in trouble when this is looking like....oh my... Transition. Who knew...
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Malachite
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Post by Malachite on Feb 28, 2015 5:33:50 GMT 8
Your majesty, your royal highness....his royal majesty, his royal highness....LOL!
I'm all serious, he/him/his is good.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 3:20:19 GMT 8
let's try to have some real man talk, shall we? i think most here would fail at that though. does anyone have any idea what a real man is anyway? well, other than rambo of course. but he's fictional. that pic of putin on a horse, shirtless. The putinator. whisper OK so a little bit of a confession but at my age, am I the only one that finds Putin a little sexy for a man his age? Maybe to me it's more about attitude and confidence which it seems like he has plenty of. Not to mention his attitude.
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Mar 1, 2015 3:58:28 GMT 8
Ah. Either that's the worlds biggest saddle on a really big horse or he really is that short. The bridle looks like a torture device to control the horse. I'm trying to figure out why he holds the reins like a kid on a trail horse and he needs heels so his foot doesn't get caught if the horse does act up. See that right foot? It can slip right through and drag him around while the horse tries to get that thing off it's head. I like the horse though, and the rifle. Looks like the strap fell off on one end and what's with the glove? Both pics look like he is trying to prove he has an attitude and neither show any confidence to me. He should have a hat on, just say'n. But for who he wants the world to think he is, he should actually be doing something. I keep seeing these kinds of pic of him, where it looks like he could be doing something, but he isn't. Poser. Nope, I don't see sexy just because he took his shirt off for a photo session, and he has the wrong kind of confidence for that attitude of his. KGB.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 1, 2015 4:25:09 GMT 8
Ah. Either that's the worlds biggest saddle on a really big horse or he really is that short. The bridle looks like a torture device to control the horse. I'm trying to figure out why he holds the reins like a kid on a trail horse and he needs heels so his foot doesn't get caught if the horse does act up. See that right foot? It can slip right through and drag him around while the horse tries to get that thing off it's head. I like the horse though, and the rifle. Looks like the strap fell off on one end and what's with the glove? Both pics look like he is trying to prove he has an attitude and neither show any confidence to me. He should have a hat on, just say'n. But for who he wants the world to think he is, he should actually be doing something. I keep seeing these kinds of pic of him, where it looks like he could be doing something, but he isn't. Poser. Nope, I don't see sexy just because he took his shirt off for a photo session, and he has the wrong kind of confidence for that attitude of his. KGB. Well, since I have not been ....Ummmm...no I can't make that horsey joke....But a guy with no shirt...30 years no chance to be horsey... Oh....Ummmm.... Nope. Better ones out there. With better horsey skills I bet. Back to nylon on nylon....
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