what pronouns would you like to be used in reference to you?

[Deleted]

Me...Sh'e. H'er.

Blessings

Tsj

[EchelonHunt]

They/Them/Their or He/Him/His, it doesn't bother me which one is used~

[Taka]

he or it.
they doesn't sit too well with me personally, though it's easy to use about others.

[Captains]

Nov 24, 2014 0:41:49 GMT 8 EchelonHunt said:

They/Them/Their or He/Him/His, it doesn't bother me which one is used~

Same here. Personally, I'm comfortable with either of these.

A good reference thread!

[Deleted]

 He, she, him, her, whatever because it's not a sensitive issue for me.

[Patty]

OMG I can see that I will have to print this one out I will never remember who is who. Please take pity on me if I screw up, seems to be my nature at times.
As far as pronouns, anything feminine, the guy is history ! Patty

[Deleted]

Nov 24, 2014 23:05:49 GMT 8 Patty said:

OMG I can see that I will have to print this one out I will never remember who is who. Please take pity on me if I screw up, seems to be my nature at times.
As far as pronouns, anything feminine, the guy is history ! Patty

Got CRS too Patty?   

[Metamorph]

Nov 24, 2014 23:05:49 GMT 8 Patty said:

OMG I can see that I will have to print this one out I will never remember who is who. Please take pity on me if I screw up, seems to be my nature at times.
As far as pronouns, anything feminine, the guy is history ! Patty

me too, I wonder if we can stick it in our profile somehow.

I am fine with everything bu she/her

[EchelonHunt]

I have added a Pronouns drop-down menu and optional text field to add suitable pronouns as desired

[Deleted]

Standard female pronouns for me. *goes to find the new pronouns profile option*

[Ayla]

Tricky one as they all could apply to me depending upon the situation and on our relationship. Gender fluidity demands a lot from the other party to gender me appropriately as my presentation cues can be less than obvious. Hence if no offence is meant then none is taken. If I occur as a female then please use she/her; if I feel masculine to you then please use him/he and if I seem indeterminate then they/them will be fine. Not big on 'it'.

[Deleted]

You sure, Aisla? I don't trust myself to gender/pronoun someone properly based on cues like that, but I'll try. Masculinity and femininity are such subjective concepts, and what I see as feminine might be another person's idea of masculine. I just hope you don't mind too much when I probably end up using the opposite pronouns of whatever you're feeling at the time. But I'll try.

[Ayla]

I am ok with where I am and I love it when folk try to understand and to connect with me. If I occur as M or F to different folk it really isn't an issue and in some ways appeals to me.

[Deleted]

Nov 26, 2014 0:08:39 GMT 8 @julieblair said:

Nov 25, 2014 1:54:15 GMT 8 EchelonHunt said:

I have added a Pronouns drop-down menu and optional text field to add suitable pronouns as desired

Thank You, It works.

+1 

[EchelonHunt]

That's understandable Ativan

I will never forgive you, ever! Joking! I agree with you about pronouns, I've stopped displaying it on my profile as I've discovered if I'm called she, he, they, it, I don't care. It's all good