Dating after coming out as NB
Jul 11, 2021 11:08:59 GMT 8
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Post by charley83 on Jul 11, 2021 11:08:59 GMT 8
So as some of you know I left the husband 7 months ago and have been on a path of healing from emotion, and financial abuse. I'm no where near even wanting to date but I have noticed more and more people hitting me up on social media. Some of them I am out as Pansexual/demisexual and Non-binary but one that i know my family has access to I am now because no one in my family really cares and honestly will make it about them in the end.
So my biggest issue I have is I tend to be more femme or neutral presenting and most men are all "hi beautiful lady" or "hey sexy lady" just from seeing a few pics of my face. I'm not a small person and I have more masculine features and when they ignore the whole NB issue it frustrates me. But then earlier today I actually had a woman message me and say she saw my profile and pics and that I was "a gorgeous person" I kinda got giddy for a minute. I don't know where life will lead me once I am officially divorced and I don't know if I will ever really date again but that one woman made my day by not gendering me.
So my biggest issue I have is I tend to be more femme or neutral presenting and most men are all "hi beautiful lady" or "hey sexy lady" just from seeing a few pics of my face. I'm not a small person and I have more masculine features and when they ignore the whole NB issue it frustrates me. But then earlier today I actually had a woman message me and say she saw my profile and pics and that I was "a gorgeous person" I kinda got giddy for a minute. I don't know where life will lead me once I am officially divorced and I don't know if I will ever really date again but that one woman made my day by not gendering me.