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trinity
Non-Binary
Sh'e, H'er, they them, she, he, whatever....
Bisexual
Faithfully Married.
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Post by Trinity on Dec 25, 2018 6:05:26 GMT 8
I am so happy that things are settled in your house. I admire your strength. I caved and dressed as femme as I could handle today for my Husbands family. I don't have much to do with my side and that is because they are a bunch of selfish people who only came around when they needed something from me. But back to the in-laws. His parents and brothers have seen me and accept how I dress and act but for the sake of keeping the peace and not snatching one of his cousins up by her hair I chose to be April and not charley. Which basically meant I spent hours in a corner and not socializing. But hey long as there was no hair pulling I call it a win. Tomorrow is set to be ok. No family visits and get to sit around my own house wearing what I want. Only down side is I'm minus one kid because his dad has him this Christmas. Merry Christmas. How I appear is not as important as who I am. And nobody gets to mess with that. Ever.
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rebeccas
Demigirl
Androgynous
In private, feminine
They/Their/Them
(she/her/hers in safe spaces)
Queer
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Post by Becky on Dec 25, 2018 23:43:08 GMT 8
I am so happy that things are settled in your house. I admire your strength. I caved and dressed as femme as I could handle today for my Husbands family. I don't have much to do with my side and that is because they are a bunch of selfish people who only came around when they needed something from me. But back to the in-laws. His parents and brothers have seen me and accept how I dress and act but for the sake of keeping the peace and not snatching one of his cousins up by her hair I chose to be April and not charley. Which basically meant I spent hours in a corner and not socializing. But hey long as there was no hair pulling I call it a win. Tomorrow is set to be ok. No family visits and get to sit around my own house wearing what I want. Only down side is I'm minus one kid because his dad has him this Christmas. Merry Christmas. I am totally empathizing with you right now. Becky is totally buried. I'm with the in-laws in a flannel shirt and jeans, with a scruffy unshaved face. Probably how you want to express yourself right now! I can occasionally peek at my sparkly baby blue toenails to remember who I want to be. It's not a crisis, it's just "meh." The skirt and blouse can wait. Have a Merry Christmas, Charley! Big *HUG* from me. <3
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danishcouple
Junior Member
Both afab have the x marker in transition to become hermaphrodite
Posts: 62
Gender: Non-Binary
Presentation: bigender
Pronouns: They/Their/Them
Orientation: Queer
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Both afab have the x marker in transition to become hermaphrodite
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Non-Binary
bigender
They/Their/Them
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Post by danishcouple on Nov 20, 2021 2:31:53 GMT 8
We were on a young age introduced in the 2 spirit group, a group of people who identity didn't match with the binairy, not only adults but also children of all ages ( also complete family's, our therapist's family transformed all together ) there we became very active.
Trough this meetings we learned a lot of our self and started transition, taking testosterone, to become the third gender.
We have had always a child wish and discussed al lot about this, both we wear clear that we want our child grow up as non binair outside the binair, and we wanted also a medical transition for our child in later feature just to be the same as us, to have the third gender.
A view years on Testosterone one of us stopped for a while and gets pregnant by a donor.
When our child was born ( hen is born with a penis ) we signed hen with the X marker and gived hen a non-binair name.
We grow hen up with the idea that hen have no gender like the others but have the third gender.
Clothing, play stuff and so came form both binair genders, we learnd thet clothing and so on have no gender and that hen can choose what hen wants.
We took hen also with us to the 2 spirit meetings and other nb friends where hen could play with other kids who are living outside the binairy.
Trough all this hen learned also that binair genders was only for selecting people in 2 groups and that tis is an form of discrimination of human beeeing.
All went wel and our child is a happy child learn and growing very happy and fast.
Just a vieuw months before our child's 12th birthday ( around that age starts puberty ) we took our child with us to our therapist for different measures and blood tests, this was all ok, and on hen 12th birthday started our therapist our kids transition by injecting estrogen without testosterone blockers and started our child's male and female puberty to come definitive outside the binairy and inside the third gender.
Now day's our kid is 15 is doing well is proud of hen mixed body type in having not only a penis with a hairy flat chest but also having breasts and soft skin hen is very sensitive doing well on school have very good results wanted become a train driver or railway engineer have lots of friends is and is full accepeted of lifestyle.
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