Embarrassed to ask, but what is sh'e?

[EchelonHunt]

Sh’e is Trinity’s own unique pronoun sh’e came up with

I’ll let Trinity explain for you

[Trinity]

LOL

As far as I know, I am the only person who uses this pronoun, however, it is a very accurate one for who I feel I am.

Sh'e - not s'he, but sh'e - is a visual indicator of my physical and mental gender.

I am a fully transitioned mtf female - physically - without the surgeries. At the moment, I have no interest in changing what I have down below, although I am a bottom and don't do the top thing.

In the beginning of the transition the mtf transwomen were trying to tell me that it was a binary thing, an inevitable movement all the way to female. I knew in myself and my core that it was not who I was, I won't deny the male elements of who I am, nor will I deny the female elements of who I am either. I am not a man wearing a dress, nor a man who took hormones. I have had even medical professionals not understand that. Nor am I a woman born into the wrong body.

No, I am a full transition androgyne. I don't go for the nonbinary typical pronouns, they and them doesn't bother me, I don't mind he but it jars me, I don't mind she but it amuses me.

But, I don't like hearing he when spoken, sh'e sounds like she, so, since I am often stealth female, thats fine.

Stealth male, I want he, but I smile when they say she.

Sh'e. Feminine dominant, mtf bodied, mtf sexed, multipresentational, and a nonlineal mix of gender that is not a point on a line but a myriad of gendered qualities that the binary tries to categorize into belonging to one gender or the other or possibly both.

Put simply, I am trans. I like my pronoun because its accurate to who I am. So, since the english language failed me, I made it accomodate me, for sh'e is not a binary pronoun, it is mine.

Its nice to be asked this, its been a long time. Thank you.

[Trinity]

Mar 5, 2018 11:14:07 GMT 8 KayTheLetter said:

Oh gosh, that sounds so well considered and personal! I love your explanation and it feels like I understand your point of view a little better.

I am also glad that you liked being asked ♥ definitely makes it even more worth asking... or i guess I could say, that it is nice to me that it's nice to you to have been asked... perhaps I am getting too meta x.x

You can ask me anything you like, its why I am here, nothing is out of bounds, if it is, I would say.

Its the purpose of the forum, this forum has saved lives, some we know, some we do not know, it has changed lives for many, for the better.

You are a part of that, keep the questions coming, it keeps us young and sharp and we feel needed.

And that's true of not just you, its for all of us here, everyone, its not a clique or a club, its family, inclusive, reaching out to help.

Enjoy your unicorn forest.