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Post by Deleted on May 28, 2016 0:38:55 GMT 8
growing up with parents who are detrimental to one's mental health can make a whole lot of things more difficult though. growing up with strictly conditional love often makes it difficult to learn any confidence at all, because if even your own mother always finds faults in you, and never thinks you're good enough... then there's obviously something wrong with you, right? parents can give their children strength if they do parenting right. but they can just as well give weaknesses and vulnerability by doing it wrong. the intention behind, and the love they claim to have (which is most likely real), don't matter if words and actions tell a different story the way that the child interprets it. one part of anger management is directing one's anger toward the right person or past event. of you get angry, you definitely have good reason for it. though it isn't necessarily the person in front of you who is giving you reason to get angry, they may have just triggered a faint memory of the real reason. As usual definite words of wisdom. Actually I was a real "problem child". My dad was the type that boys had to have short hair and after a few times of running away before "haircut time" they gave that up. He did chill out as time went by though. He still calls me a hippy though. I tell him that I am not a "flower child" but rather a "problem child that was his worst nightmare growing up". He agrees.
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