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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2014 22:01:46 GMT 8
It wasn't even enjoyable though. It just hurt. Poor baby, Auntie Shan sends you a little TLC
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2014 22:26:51 GMT 8
Aisla and Trinty....
All I can add that has been most helpful is that I spend an inordinate amount of time conversing with my sweetie and dealing with any fears or objections that she may have. We live our lives as two inseparable friends, she is my buddy. And though I haven't had any gonads in a long time and have experienced the accompanying lack of libido, I have managed to continue to meet her sexual and emotional needs using a small amount to T cream in the nether region three days before our proposed mid-morning delight. That and half a viagra and I'm good to go and frankly I enjoy it myself. This has had the effect of renewing the level of intimacy and the commitment that we signed on for a long time ago. The only setback for me is that the T is killing off my hair, but I'd rather go completely bald than have to go through the crushing emotional pain of a divorce after all these years.
We had come close to it several years ago when a TG woman plied me with everything she had and tried to break up our marriage. I tested my spouse by telling her that she might be happier without me, after all she is smart and pretty and has maintained her youthful figure. She asked me how I felt if I knew that she was going to be seeing someone else? I told her that I'd be forced to kill the SOB. She was testing me too and my answer told her all she needed to know, we decided that there was no way we could ever live apart and be happy. So I've made it my life's mission to make her the most important person in my life and do whatever it takes to nurture our relationship.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2014 23:53:27 GMT 8
Aisla and Trinty.... All I can add that has been most helpful is that I spend an inordinate amount of time conversing with my sweetie and dealing with any fears or objections that she may have. We live our lives as two inseparable friends, she is my buddy. And though I haven't had any gonads in a long time and have experienced the accompanying lack of libido, I have managed to continue to meet her sexual and emotional needs using a small amount to T cream in the nether region three days before our proposed mid-morning delight. That and half a viagra and I'm good to go and frankly I enjoy it myself. This has had the effect of renewing the level of intimacy and the commitment that we signed on for a long time ago. The only setback for me is that the T is killing off my hair, but I'd rather go completely bald than have to go through the crushing emotional pain of a divorce after all these years. We had come close to it several years ago when a TG woman plied me with everything she had and tried to break up our marriage. I tested my spouse by telling her that she might be happier without me, after all she is smart and pretty and has maintained her youthful figure. She asked me how I felt if I knew that she was going to be seeing someone else? I told her that I'd be forced to kill the SOB. She was testing me too and my answer told her all she needed to know, we decided that there was no way we could ever live apart and be happy. So I've made it my life's mission to make her the most important person in my life and do whatever it takes to nurture our relationship. I seem to be doing that, we talk a lot. She doesn't want penetration, my bph ruined that anyway. And t makes me insane. So we have going for us... Communication, especially when a boundary crosses a comfort zone Divorce being unconditionally taboo, that is both family and Indian culture. Doing everything together. Physical touch, abundantly. My ability to release Sh'e with her sexually Lingerie an acceptable presentation if straps are covered. The fact that she knows DES did this and that two of our kids have anxiety disorders. She gets what mental pain is. Negs Cultural transphobia My bloody fear problems Rigid anti trans neighbors and extended family Dysphoria pain levels if they rise higher Full transition presentationally if it happens. Time will tell. She keeps talking about retiring in our current home since I am making it gorgeous. Doesn't hurt to have fuzzy supporting and another daughter totally accepting, and the third one gets that it's a dysphoria. If we can't make it, it would be too sad. One other thing, we have that direct intervention thing from Christ. She won't want to disobey a face to face vision like that. Shan, the fact that you pulled it off makes my fear a little less red lined. Thank you sweetheart for coming to this forum. Selfishly, I am so glad you did that for us. Love,kisses and hugs, and prayers for Aisla.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 0:06:29 GMT 8
This is a hard place for me to come. I'm sad that it is so hard for so many. I'm sad that it is hard for me too. "I do declare. There were times when I was so lonesome I took some comfort there." The awful aloneness is what often haunts me. When my wife looked at me and I knew we were done, it was a year before I believed it to be real. The sorrow in her eyes hurt more than the harsh words or the violence. I would prefer to be hit. I can take a punch. Thinking too much will leave me frozen. Going to walk the dogs and go to work. Julie I know honey! (((Hugs)))
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 0:27:06 GMT 8
This is a hard place for me to come. I'm sad that it is so hard for so many. I'm sad that it is hard for me too. "I do declare. There were times when I was so lonesome I took some comfort there." The awful aloneness is what often haunts me. When my wife looked at me and I knew we were done, it was a year before I believed it to be real. The sorrow in her eyes hurt more than the harsh words or the violence. I would prefer to be hit. I can take a punch. Thinking too much will leave me frozen. Going to walk the dogs and go to work. Julie I know honey! (((Hugs))) Call me girl and I will love you up sweetie. You're a good catch, and loved by so many of us
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 4:52:42 GMT 8
Someone posted the word God over my avatar and I need it gone ASAP, that's blasphemous and it doesn't sit well with me. I know someone meant well and was being cute but please remove it, I've tried everything and can't figure out how to get rid of it..wtf it goes or I go.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 5:05:22 GMT 8
Speak to jacey, it looks like it's a title that you get automatically when you reach a certain post count. Jacey should be able to give you a custom one.
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Post by Ayla on Dec 15, 2014 5:26:54 GMT 8
Shan
I should not have laughed in my earlier post. I understand your thoughts and objections and am sure Jacey can fix this. Any suggestions - I thought of senior citizen but quickly rejected this and like the term Elder as it reflects respect and long term contribution to the tribe.
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Post by Taka on Dec 15, 2014 5:43:47 GMT 8
Someone posted the word God over my avatar and I need it gone ASAP, that's blasphemous and it doesn't sit well with me. I know someone meant well and was being cute but please remove it, I've tried everything and can't figure out how to get rid of it..wtf it goes or I go. a somewhat unpredictable forum quirk... some default titles just aren't made for all types of people. pm jacey, they'll do something to fix it. i reallu hope they'll fix it for all, we don't need any idol worship in here. fake posting gods. i'd undersand if the title was assigned after 100.000 posts though. not likely to happen to anyone...
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 5:58:02 GMT 8
Senior Member was sufficient, that has really got me irritated beyond words!
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Post by Taka on Dec 15, 2014 6:07:45 GMT 8
Senior Member was sufficient, that has really got me irritated beyond words! please give jacey a chance to fix it before you leave due to some kids' tasteless pranks.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 6:11:00 GMT 8
Senior Member was sufficient, that has really got me irritated beyond words! please give jacey a chance to fix it before you leave due to some kids' tasteless pranks. I'm not leaving, just kinda steamed because it's unfair to put anyone in a spotlight like that and it's creepy for the other members to have to see too.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 6:27:12 GMT 8
Arggghhh
I broke eight weeks of nail growth off on a box..
They were perfect on that hand.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 6:30:34 GMT 8
please give jacey a chance to fix it before you leave due to some kids' tasteless pranks. I'm not leaving, just kinda steamed because it's unfair to put anyone in a spotlight like that and it's creepy for the other members to have to see too. What the heck? Not cool.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 15, 2014 6:32:14 GMT 8
Arggghhh I broke eight weeks of nail growth off on a box.. They were perfect on that hand. Raging... Shit. It'll grow back out! Are you taking any calcium supplements?
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