Post by Ativan Prescribed on Dec 23, 2021 8:18:22 GMT 8
Everyone is different and to try and compare each other is not a thing usually done.
She-male is kinda a similar thing to saying shemale, which is the pron version of what cis white males think is a thing, porn is a lot like pro wrestling in that it is a cartoonish way of seeing the world.
After a while you just get used to these 'sides' of binary gender and sooner or later realize that you are not some of this and some of that, you are you and not afraid to be honest about who you are and the various aspects of self.
While from a binary perspective there are differences between genders, stepping outside that construct opens up all of it to just being different aspects of self, none of those aspects are strictly associated with binary genders, as much as they would like to believe in that.
Everyone has all of these aspects of gender available to them and they use them, some quietly and some not so quietly, how you use them is entirely up to you, but gender in especially the binary sense is nothing more than a social construct, it isn't real, its like the matrix.
Of all the aspects that people use on a constant basis, not a single one of them is without exception, its merely a state of mind.
There is no spectrum of gender aspects, only people who insist without any real proof of real knowledge that they are feminine or masculine, what everyone assumes one or the other is merely parroting what people have come to think is something that is written in stone, think of it instead as grains of sand.
You are in reality no more feminine or masculine than the next person, you are just aware and have active aspects that can be either or.
She-male is kinda a similar thing to saying shemale, which is the pron version of what cis white males think is a thing, porn is a lot like pro wrestling in that it is a cartoonish way of seeing the world.
After a while you just get used to these 'sides' of binary gender and sooner or later realize that you are not some of this and some of that, you are you and not afraid to be honest about who you are and the various aspects of self.
While from a binary perspective there are differences between genders, stepping outside that construct opens up all of it to just being different aspects of self, none of those aspects are strictly associated with binary genders, as much as they would like to believe in that.
Everyone has all of these aspects of gender available to them and they use them, some quietly and some not so quietly, how you use them is entirely up to you, but gender in especially the binary sense is nothing more than a social construct, it isn't real, its like the matrix.
Of all the aspects that people use on a constant basis, not a single one of them is without exception, its merely a state of mind.
There is no spectrum of gender aspects, only people who insist without any real proof of real knowledge that they are feminine or masculine, what everyone assumes one or the other is merely parroting what people have come to think is something that is written in stone, think of it instead as grains of sand.
You are in reality no more feminine or masculine than the next person, you are just aware and have active aspects that can be either or.