Shupe came to this forum and took no time in being bossy to others.
They had a stick up their ass then and tried to tell others here that what he said was correct and how it is.
Sure, maybe for them, but like the people who get the forums diversity and accept it and can see it clearly, they don't need to be told things that may not be true for them.
And that happens here all the time, and is easily corrected and it turns out to just be a mistaken thing, nothing more, say you are this and you simply are.
I give the wrong advice and say things all the time that shouldn't be taken as the last word because they aren't, but Shupe had us all figured out and wanted us to get in line behind them.
I agonize all the time that I might lead someone astray, give them some bit of knowledge that isn't really for them and they go off in the wrong direction.
The entire thing is to help people to go in the direction that is going to work for them, the problem is in not knowing exactly what they is, but a nudge forward is really what it takes for people to see that direction as wrong and then turn and go the direction they choose, and that is another thing done here, if people are stuck in a pity party of wallowing despair, then that nudge is crucial to getting them out of that.
The path and always moving forward... the path isn't a one way only thing, it is each person's path, and the rate that they choose to move forward is theirs to make.
This is why the advice and answers are mostly vague and not a concrete validation or advice about things, we do at times give more specific advice but only in consideration of what the people have said.
Shup on the other hand was almost and kinda was demanding that we take up his cause and do everything we can for it.
That is not a function of this forum, period.
We are not here to expose ourselves in the least, this is a private forum and it is about being able to be here without the damn transphobes coming here and leaving their chickenshit messages because they are in real life to afraid to face a truth.
Shupe really pissed me off with the way they acted and leaving here was in their best interests, I wasn't about to put much thought into anything for them that the forum is about.
They got what they wanted and are now on another bent about themselves and wanting the world to come to him and bow down to his insane outlook on life and how it works.
Do you know that just the other day the first NB passport was handed out? The thing that put that in motion was the legality of shupes declaration out west there, it led to others in the same week I think, same month anyways.
There were a lot of good things that came from it, but because he couldn't handle just being NB and discovering where it is going in truth for him, he caved to the transsexual theater of drama that says you have to do the plan, the damn plan.
And that is doing virtually everything you possibly can to become a stealth woman as opposed to the AMAB designation, but that shit hasn't been on the radar for a long time now.
In this State you can change your gender to whatever you want, and you can change the forms to change your sex, bth go if you want to all past records and the change is in those.
There is no damn plan that says you have to not be NB, and had they just hung around and joined in here, they would have had the experience they wanted online, but they had to go and act all pissy about their crusade and that we were wrong to not actively support it here.
I don't know who the fuck they talked to to get that idea that they weren't accepted as NB, the entire thing about trans is pretty much going the same way it was for gay, they had the shit for a few years but it's a nothing deal now.
The only people who care about giving trans shit on a daily basis are the ones who would eat trumps turds if he asked them to, they sit in their end of the world bunkers and go online and harrass people.
They make it legitimate for the bigot assholes who have trump turds for brains to call out loudly anything that their insufficient knowledge of everything but the flat earth dumb ass shit at people they don't know, and always from a distance, they are in almost all cases just to damn chickenshit to come face to face and even ask a person what trans is about, to them it is a contagious disease.
But then on the other hand a majority a big one, just see a bigot without anything useful to say, they see the chickenshit person that they are.
Shupe was all ready to take on the entire world and to straighten it out as a crowd affair of people protesting a gender designation everywhere until it was finally done.
It to me was going into that same area that the bigots do, if you can't tell people something about NB in a way they understand, then the explanations have to be there.
Problem is, each person has a different one, sure all added up and spit out as the average sounds like a good idea, but it isn't, that isn't everyone's path and idea of who they are.
Shupe just assumed that everyone wanted to jump at this and be the big bandwagon, but most people just want their own self recognized and be able to get on and function in society.
And you know, that approach is the one that has worked the best, lots more people ask questions and want the answers about who we are because they can't see us.
If you dress as two genders or sex's, they see a person wearing clothes from two directions and the fit isn't there in their minds.
The entire concept is shaking the roots of what they know about gender and sex, it is those people trying to figure it out who are the ones that have made us legitimate, more so than anything else.
Once it clicks in a person's mind, it sticks forever because it does rock their foundations.
They here the wrong thing being said and speak up at times, it's a slow process, but look back at all the trouble gay had about getting married, it was a damn war and those losers in it, the bigots, are trying to take NB down.
Ain't going to happen, because there are enough people out there who get it now and they get themselves even more than they used to, their truths and foundations had to be moved in order for them to except the truth and us.
Going all full tilt crazy on society is exactly the thing they think is going to happen because the gay thing happened that way, but there has been no parades and protests that haven't already been there anyways.
People don't understand so the smart ones ask and do what they need to get the answers that they want, and that becomes the realization that we are indeed real.
The story is still going, the gays had the TV show Queer Eye and once that happened, other shows had gays as characters in them that were more than comedy backdrops.
They became legitimate in hardly no time at all.The current hollywood TV Stage and in advertisements is to include trans in all of its forms.
Subtle changes going on, and it is going to become a big deal show or movie and the advertising companies are going to be pulling the bandwagon, they want to catch every last dollar they can, but it makes us legitimte.
And it is slowly going on right now, that a person now has a federal document that claims for the world to see that they are indeed NB, there is no turning back now.
This is beyond the trump turd barians bigotry, they become even more the assholes they are, even trump must have spit his fast food out when he heard about it, but is he going to go that far in being the bigot he is?
Shupe just had to wait for it to come back to them, and it has, but they are off on another bent about shit that they want the world to back him up on, but the world doesn't care about him.
The world accepts the changes that were made and are going to be made, and he should get the credit that is due, it did kick it off for others to do that and that made us legitimate.
There is no amount of having a huge protest that is going to do anything, most because we do look pretty normal, within the acceptable range in quite a few places.
It is now only down to the last of the turd brained bigots to object anymore, and what are they going to say that makes sense, that they just don't think it is real when a passport was issued as NB?
Thei blowhole shit is done, they have no argument that is going to sound right because they don't have a clue and now a lot more people do and that number is going up in a good way.
For people who still think that the moon landings were faked because of why?, and that chemtrails are doing all this stuff that has never happened despite them saying it is going to for decades now, for the belief that the world is flat because they just don't get such a simple thing as a sphere that the planet is, that science is the root of all evil yet they use it all the time and aren't complaining about that, for all the things they want to say is just wrong because they can't comprehend, NB is a reachable concept for more and more people all the time, it did take shaking it loose and Shupe did that, but that they never stopped to see that it did and then went off the rails on their shit, they want us all again to be the backstop for his shit.
I don't think so, it's too much like the conspiracy theories that the turd brains use to navigate the world, it's a nothing but one person who just didn't get it, despite that they kicked it off.
You know, if you watch the people on the internet, on TV, in the movies, even in the news,.. you'll start to see people who maybe and probably NB, but they aren't doing that as NB, they are as people, they aren't shouting to the world 'here I am', they don't want to be the poster child of ever persons version of how NB is for them. But you can see them just ever so slightly push their way of being NB into what they are doing.