Dont wait too long

[Trinity]

Every once in a while, I think of my age, and my story and transition.

Dont wait too long darlings.

Its a hurt that doesnt get fixed, yes you feel better after finding your truth and living it, but it truly hurts to lose the beauty years.

There are a million ways to be trans.

Just be true to who you are.  Dont try to beat this, unless its not your truth.

Dont live someone elses truth.  Live yours.

[Leena]

I'm not sure beauty was ever a possibility for me.

I fought this for so long, and I feel like I've kind of kept fighting it even after accepting it 4 years ago. It's really the last 4 years that bother me, I could have been fully transitioned by now. The two decades before that I was technically able to transition, but was so far in denial I didn't seriously consider it.

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Veronica. Beauty is nothing. Some men will find you beautiful with all the scars and moles or anything else. It is confidence and attitude that is attractive to a lot of men. Women even less.

But yeah. I told everyone here that I would be a basket case with HRT. Well I was right. I gave the man deal a one last try and it lasted a couple of months.

So Veronica, who cares? Do you really need to be a beautiful woman or not a woman at all? Is beauty a requirement for femininity? Do you know how many ugly women are out there yet they are women and a lot married to men?

Look either you are or your are not. If beauty is a requisite then may think about it a lot more. I wear my shit because it feel natural. It don't feel good or different and I am not beautiful or could care less to be. Well hon, I am a hypocrite though because I do love feeking sexy.

Push it. If you can go out dressed in a skirt and pumps and or high heels and feel right, then who cares if they find you sexy? A whole lot of ugly cis women go out dressed like this. If you lived closer to NOLA I would take you out and make you as uncomfortable as you could stand and then you may be trans. LOL. yes when you show your boobs for beads during Mardi Gras then you may be trans.  I do and hell I work there during. What sux is boobs for beads is OK for the NOPD but boobs for business is not? Go figure that one....

[Jennifer (Tink)]

Sept 19, 2017 4:31:09 GMT 8 @jamie said:

Veronica. Beauty is nothing. Some men will find you beautiful with all the scars and moles or anything else. It is confidence and attitude that is attractive to a lot of men. Women even less.

But yeah. I told everyone here that I would be a basket case with HRT. Well I was right. I gave the man deal a one last try and it lasted a couple of months.

So Veronica, who cares? Do you really need to be a beautiful woman or not a woman at all? Is beauty a requirement for femininity? Do you know how many ugly women are out there yet they are women and a lot married to men?

Look either you are or your are not. If beauty is a requisite then may think about it a lot more. I wear my shit because it feel natural. It don't feel good or different and I am not beautiful or could care less to be. Well hon, I am a hypocrite though because I do love feeking sexy.

Push it. If you can go out dressed in a skirt and pumps and or high heels and feel right, then who cares if they find you sexy? A whole lot of ugly cis women go out dressed like this. If you lived closer to NOLA I would take you out and make you as uncomfortable as you could stand and then you may be trans. LOL. yes when you show your boobs for beads during Mardi Gras then you may be trans.  I do and hell I work there during. What sux is boobs for beads is OK for the NOPD but boobs for business is not? Go figure that one....

What's the definition of beauty? Since it's in the eye of the beholder that question can never be answered unless you go by society standards.

We by our nature go against society standards.

Decide what you define as beauty for yourself and start with that. (I.e. intellect, strength, conviction, a nice ass, chest, etc.....

:hugs:

--Jenn

[Leena]

Yes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but there are more beholders that have society's standards.

I actually am perceived as being good looking by a fair amount of women when I am doing guy mode. The things that make me attractive when perceived as a guy, are not things that are generally perceived as attractive in women. I really do struggle with the idea that I'm making myself unattractive, and that is a large part of why I am still not on HRT.

I also am not sure I want to lose the muscles I have. I wouldn't mind being even more muscular actually. I personally find muscular women attractive. I'm still hoping I will look more like that when I have completed facial hair removal.