Mitzidog
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Gender: Non-Binary
Pronouns: He/His/Him
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Post by Mitzidog on Apr 21, 2017 0:30:48 GMT 8
Hello. I am John. I am in my late forties and I just bought my first dress a week or so ago. I did film & Drama at uni, so had done dress up before, but this is all a bit new and definitely different.
I work for the civil service and whatever else they are, they have excellent policies in place to ensure that any discrimination is kept well and truly out of the workplace.
I'm not sure whether I am ready to "come out" yet, nor even really what I will be "coming out" as. I don't have the language or the desire to put a label on myself at the moment. For the moment my pronoun will stay as my birth gender.
I chose to marry a woman and I want to stay married to her. She is already really supportive, and always has been through other things we have dealt with together.
So hi everyone. I'm new, a little bit scared of what is happening but also quite excited too.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Apr 21, 2017 1:10:50 GMT 8
Welcome to Non-Binary & Genderqueer Support Forum, John! You aren't alone If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask! The journey of self-discovery can be both exciting and daunting but rest assured, we have all been there one way or another (sometimes, still going through it, as I am now!) and we can help make the process a little easier to swallow! Feel free to reply to existing threads (no matter how old they are) or make new threads to kickstart discussion Kind regards, Jacey
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Post by Jennifer (Tink) on Apr 21, 2017 7:23:24 GMT 8
Welcome John!
:hugs:
-- Jenn (Tink)
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Post by Trinity on Apr 21, 2017 7:44:35 GMT 8
Hello. I am John. I am in my late forties and I just bought my first dress a week or so ago. I did film & Drama at uni, so had done dress up before, but this is all a bit new and definitely different. I work for the civil service and whatever else they are, they have excellent policies in place to ensure that any discrimination is kept well and truly out of the workplace. I'm not sure whether I am ready to "come out" yet, nor even really what I will be "coming out" as. I don't have the language or the desire to put a label on myself at the moment. For the moment my pronoun will stay as my birth gender. I chose to marry a woman and I want to stay married to her. She is already really supportive, and always has been through other things we have dealt with together. So hi everyone. I'm new, a little bit scared of what is happening but also quite excited too. Welcome John. Its a wild journey here when we are married. Late self discovery - let alone late transition - is pretty turbulent. Its also unavoidable, our lives do catch up to us. So please, share a lot, let your hair down, and talk it though. I don't do boxes, I just "am". I do have some descriptive labels developed over 4 years of transitioning, to me, but there isn't much that can really capture it all with me. Share your heart out honey, its safe here. All of us need to do that. It can be kind of scary to be us. But the rewards of finding our truth are very deep.
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Post by Leena on Apr 21, 2017 8:19:45 GMT 8
Welcome John!
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Post by Taka on May 2, 2017 4:38:02 GMT 8
welcome!
i'm also going really slow with this, have been for a few years already... my own way of thinking is that people will subconsciously accept a whole lot as long as i don't throw something completely new right in their face and demand acceptance. physical changes take a long time anyway, so why stress out about it before it becomes obvious enough for others to not even have to ask anymore.
i also refuse to label myself. no idea what to call myself apart from just "me".
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