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Post by Trinity on Sept 29, 2016 5:36:26 GMT 8
How do you feel in public when you dare the matrix...when you take on the social binary and present in a way that confuses them..is that a he or a she...or when you dare them...omg that person is going across the gender tAboos...
I get off on the reactions when i am out and clearly in the mix. Some of the women start laughing and cant stop, some smile, and some frankly appear to want to get laid....
The men, however, unless they are gay, get very unconfortable.
How do i feel?
Great.
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Post by Leena on Sept 29, 2016 6:12:56 GMT 8
I'd love to be able to say nonpassing trans, as stealth transgender is unlikely to happen for me, but while I still have most of this stubble I'm androgynous at most and still occasionally stealth in birth anatomy gender role, that may be viewed by some as genderqueer and in your face free that isn't really my intent.
Men make me very uncomfortable, so I avoid interacting with them in general, especially when presenting androgynous, though it is sometimes unavoidable. Women's reactions are mixed, some seem to avoid me, some look scornful at me, some flirt with me, and most are too self absorbed to notice me. Much the same as their reactions when I'm dressed like a guy, though perhaps some that look scornful at me might flirt with me, and some that might flirt with me might ignore or avoid me.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Sept 29, 2016 12:58:41 GMT 8
I present androgynous all the time. I find that I can't help it, it's just the way my face looks. I see my androgyny as part of my genderqueer expression, so I clicked both. I clicked stealth transgender because to the general public, I am male, if a very queer male and nobody knows or suspects I was born or socialised female, at least, I don't believe so. After phallo, I would definitely go full-stealth and only my family, close friends or partner would know of my history. Sometimes, people will assume I am female due to my androgyny (or perhaps, being non-passing? I don't look anything like a cis-male or even your average transguy with short hair, beard and muscles.) But when I speak, they do a huge double-take and apologise haha. So I guess most times, people assume I am female, at the very least, a butch or a feminine male. All which are okay with me. I love their faces of shock, surprise and embarrassment
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Post by Valerie on Sept 30, 2016 22:59:30 GMT 8
Well let's see here the time I've gone out actually dressed in my outfit when I went to see Kinky Boots, I had people look as I walked by, but none who actually seemed like taken back or disgusted, but I was also with my friend, & felt more comfortable & safe with her. And of course I got compliments on my makeup & outfit when I was at the Theatre, but again I was smart in dressing in a more crossing the gender binary to a musical about drag haha!
And the first time I actually went out was to the drag show, & again everyone was calling me cute, and complimenting me, but they probably thought I was gonna perform. So far I guess I choose safe times to go out crossing the binary to like spaces I know I'll be safe haha!
Now on other occasions I've gone dressed in more masculine clothes, but wearing heels, and those times I do get looks, and I tend to feel uncomfortable.
Now onto how I feel all the times I've worn heels, or dressed in my skirt out in public, I do feel anxious, and really uncomfortable when I'm walking around because I get deathly afraid of what someone may do, or what they're thinking of me! I worry about what if someone recognizes me when I'm walking about in more just all masculine clothes, and they remember when I dressed more feminine, and they come after me! I know I'm being extremely daring, & just breaking the binary any time I'm wearing anything more feminine because I to others could be perceived as a cross dresser, and like I'm uncomfortable with that because I'm not! I'm just nonbinary, and to me clothing isn't gendered, but rest of society it is! It's just I become a self conscious nervous wreck when I go out crossing the gender binary in public. But I also feel good, like I'm damn beautiful, & I feel excited that I'm finally able to dress mixing masculine & feminine together like I been wanting to! It really is freeing getting to be you, even though you have to deal with the fretting over how society reacts.
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Post by Trinity on Oct 1, 2016 22:22:04 GMT 8
I live in both binaries as well as androgyny and querr. It depends on social circumstances and my mood.
Whenever i am read as she female i am always amuzed. Its not my truth.
As he, i dont care, its not my truth either.
There is a lot of energy and power in being on the street they, daring the matrix. I draw strength from it, i get off on it, its my own untamed gender.
The untamable Fairy sh'e/they/me.
I would do it more, i am annoyed at the matrix enforcement around me.
So lately, i am doing it more.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 2, 2016 0:23:16 GMT 8
I actually picked the last three because sometimes I pass and sometimes I don't. With full on makeup it and dressed it is easier. Without makeup and dressed it is up in the air. Without makeup and in guy's clothes then I get some looks and sometimes when I do have to be a guy at times I go with some stubble on my face, UGHHH, just to prove that I am if I have to be. Those are the times I hate the most. Those are the times that I feel most dysphoric, having small breasts and trying to be man sux. Band-aides help with the nipples though. The square big ones. Never use duct tape though because I have in a pinch and HOLY SHIT!!!! It's like ripping you nipples off. No hair and a little tissue under the tape makes it much better.
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Post by Ren on Oct 20, 2016 14:48:26 GMT 8
I clicked androgynous because that's the effect I try for though sometimes I just say "F*ck it I'm wearing leggings today." I don't pay much attention to challenging the gender binary with my clothing, I'm just trying to find clothes that matches up to me and I think that happens to cause people to double take or second guess themself if they take a glance at me.
Most of the time I opt for t-shirts, jeans, hoodies, ect. Those types of clothes are generally associated with one gender or the other and that's exactly why they're so comfy to me. Well that and that they're actually comfy clothes too.
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Hai :)
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Gender: Non-Binary
Gender: Non-binary/Genderfluid/Trans
Presentation: Gender Neutral
Presentation: I now have more diverse clOTHEESSS YASSSSSS AND A NEW HAIRCUT THATS SHORT AND FUCKING GREAT
Pronouns: They/Their/Them
Pronouns: THEM, it, yas, me, lu
Orientation: Queer
Orientation: I am more into females but a little males and females i mean they can/arnt/they are like me so not confident in gender or thet are (so not female) . Also though I'm really confused :(
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I am more into females but a little males and females i mean they can/arnt/they are like me so not confident in gender or thet are (so not female) . Also though I'm really confused :(
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Post by Luyas on Mar 5, 2017 11:49:06 GMT 8
I'm starting to be more me that what people want me too. my hair is shorter and although i have fem clothes i have blue and grey non-binary/menish clothes and the next time i go to a store I'm going to get even more clothes that both genders/everyone would wear
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Post by Laura J on Mar 5, 2017 17:22:14 GMT 8
I dont usually leave the house without makeup, nail polish, and assortment of rings, bracelets and necklace. I dress casual male clothes though, but strive to look as androgynous as possible, as that is my confort zone, and lifes gotten too short not to be authentic all the time...
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Post by Trinity on Mar 6, 2017 3:15:07 GMT 8
I dont usually leave the house without makeup, nail polish, and assortment of rings, bracelets and necklace. I dress casual male clothes though, but strive to look as androgynous as possible, as that is my confort zone, and lifes gotten too short not to be authentic all the time... Ill be in FL for a few days soon. ☺
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Post by Taka on Mar 29, 2017 21:28:24 GMT 8
i don't really present myself asand anything other than me, except on special occasions.
that might be slightly more genderqueer, but i don't think people realise.
though my daughter has noted that i'm not a very mom-like person. i'm different from other mothers, and she's even happy with it.
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Pronouns: They/Them
Orientation: Bi/Ace
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Post by Wormmms on May 14, 2017 18:34:04 GMT 8
I'm not an androgynous looking person. Even if I co out in very androgynous clothing everyone is going to gender me in one specific way (even other queer people). Which... is... frustrating...
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Post by Trinity on May 15, 2017 6:58:11 GMT 8
I'm not an androgynous looking person. Even if I co out in very androgynous clothing everyone is going to gender me in one specific way (even other queer people). Which... is... frustrating... No doubt.
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Post by Jennifer (Tink) on May 15, 2017 8:03:40 GMT 8
Simply put, at this point I can give Zero fucks what people think.
Plain and simple 😊
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Post by Ashton on Jun 20, 2017 13:01:42 GMT 8
I haven't started making the attempt at appearing more androgynous, yet. Most of the time I just wear sweatpants or jeans, a shirt and sneakers, just because they're easy to throw on and comfortable. I do have a desire to wear women's clothing (not dresses, don't care for them) and makeup, and just generally get more into the aesthetic of clothing. I will say that I think I happen to look pretty androgynous without any intervention on my part, just because of my face, 5'6 height, small hands and feet, not a very deep voice etc. I have been growing my hair out, though!
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