"Chasers"?

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OK I may be in the minority here but why do we label the guys that like us as MTFs "Tranny chasers"? I really can't speak for the guys and their admirers because I am on the other end of the spectrum. But I love Trans men. Does that make me a "chaser"? I mean I love guys. Trans, cis, gay or bi. Just the masculinity.

So my BF now is a guy. He prefers trans women. He is also bi and has been considered gay but he would rather be in a relationship with a transwoman. Does that make him a "chaser"? Yeah he flirted with me and actually let his attraction be known on our first date but treated me with nothing but respect. He still treats me like a queen even though we have been dating for a while and he actually lives with me now but still has his own place he don't even stay at anymore. He wants to make a total commitment, I am scared so it's me that is afraid of committing.

I have never understood the whole idea of MTFs trashing so called "chasers". I want a man. I want to be loved. I want to be cherished by a man. So a man likes me even though I have a penis. If he likes the penis and as long as he don't want me to use it on him which don't work anyway other than oral and then it stays soft even then, then so be it.

OMG I have seen some ugly vaginas on some exes since I am bi.  A couple I didn't even want to do oral with even. And OMG I had two exes that didn't even douche because they told me "nature" takes care of it and keeps it clean.  I douche especially before. All you need is one and then re use it as long as you don't share.  But he is top and I am bottom so he don't really need too but I do have wet ones because when I wash undies I don't want to see skid marks. If I do then they go straight into the garbage can.

I guess I am writing this because last night he told me he has had four trans girlfriends. He knows what a lot of trans women think of "chasers" and if that made me think he was a "chaser". Of course naturally I told him yeah and that he was freakier than me and laughed. Couldn't help it and then I told him seriously that no, as long as he kept chasing me and no one else we would be good. He asked me about fucking marriage again.  I told him to wait a while and he said OK and told me he loved me. OMG this man is wearing me down.

I guess what I'm saying is give the "chasers" a break. The only thing most of them are chasing is their love interests. Even cis women have dawgs chasing them and cis men have sluts chasing them. So anyone that is attracted to me, I am flattered. Where and how far it goes depends on chemistry but I will go on a date with anyone if I'm not in a relationship.

So we want to find love. My BF just for his preference of Trans women could be considered a "chaser" and I am happy that he decided to "chase" me because he is so everything I could have ever imagined. I always dreamed of being a princess and becoming a queen and he treats me just like that. Oh did I mention he prefers trans women?

Actually the only one that will screw it up is me and my BS. But he has stuck with me this long so... Who knows?

But Chaser is just another label. We hate to be labeled and people like what they like and are turned on by what turns them on. So judge not.

[Trinity]

Well Jamie the only chasers I remember was the drink right after you swallowed something....

If it was a guy I'd want him loving me trans sh'e. Not a straight guy wanting a she.

Cause my truth isnt just she and he.

Its we.

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You know Trinity, My boyfriend now could be considered a "chaser". He has dated and prefers Trans women over cis women but he loves the femininity. He has dated guys and girls so he is actually bi but he prefers the outie instead of the V.

I have to laugh because I went to bed early the other night due to drinking too much and woke up and caught him looking at trans porn. BUSTED. I laughed at him, pulled a chair next to him and we watched together and we talked. He is top and just can't get into the woman being on top. He also can't get into big stiffies either. Good for me.  He can get a stiffie but me? PHEWW. No way. It's kind of embarrassing really.

He actually chased me for a couple of months he admitted to me. He chased me until I let him catch me.

Its the "dawgs" that I don't care for no matter if they like cis women or trans women. It is the guys and girls that want to hit it and get gone. those people that you are nothing more than just another conquest. Unfortunately when alcohol flows and inhibitions are hindered too many people sleep with someone they don't care for after the effects of the alcohol wear off.


I will admit that I am wild. I will make out but I am also a tease because I don't want to be a conquest. It has pissed some off but oh well. They knew I was trans from the get go. But a guy has to wine me and dine me and make me feel like I am worth the effort. I have had them before when younger in a total lack of judgment but I am not into one night stands usually. And there are some circumstances in my 20s that I will not go into.

[Taka]

my youngest brother is apparently into milfs and shemales. shemale is an odd word for it, but one that everyone understands, so kind of good for communication purposes when being politically correct isn't of too much importance.

i don't think that makes him a chaser though. he doesn't even act half as bad as the commmon cishetero male who'll hit on anyone with big tits. or the one's who'll grab people's ass on public transportation just because they have pretty, long hair (i love stories of them finding out it was a guy's beautiful hair).


isn't it just a sort of sexual preference though?

of course, i wouldn't want to date someone who loves my tits because i'm unable to love them enough myself, so i understand how some trans women feel uncomfortable about men who like their penis. but i wouldn't hate people just for appreciating them. i like tits too, on other people than me.

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Aug 11, 2016 5:51:33 GMT 8 Taka said:

my youngest brother is apparently into milfs and shemales. shemale is an odd word for it, but one that everyone understands, so kind of good for communication purposes when being politically correct isn't of too much importance.

i don't think that makes him a chaser though. he doesn't even act half as bad as the commmon cishetero male who'll hit on anyone with big tits. or the one's who'll grab people's ass on public transportation just because they have pretty, long hair (i love stories of them finding out it was a guy's beautiful hair).


isn't it just a sort of sexual preference though?

of course, i wouldn't want to date someone who loves my tits because i'm unable to love them enough myself, so i understand how some trans women feel uncomfortable about men who like their penis. but i wouldn't hate people just for appreciating them. i like tits too, on other people than me.

I don't really find the word Shemale odd.

Yes it is. I have a gay friend, a friend that I have known since childhood, that is gay and totally top but isn't attracted to women or even trans women with a penis.  So good for your brother. Sounds like a wonderful man.

You should love everything about yourself though Taka. You may not love them but you can accept them. I was always embarrassed of my little ones while trying to fake the male BS but I accepted them regardless. This was the 4 years in the army and the times when I had to take gym class in school. Fucking boys think it is somewhat OK to touch tits on another guy just to see what they feel like so I was felt up more than a 10 dollar whore.

I'll tell you like this. It isn't what is on your chest that makes you special but what is between your ears. What is between your ears makes you Taka and special. Your posts here and elsewhere even though we are on different spectrums have helped me tremendously. Here and there. So Thank You.