UrLocalKouhai
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Gender: Non-Binary
Presentation: Gender Neutral
Pronouns: They/Their/Them
Orientation: Demisexual
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urlocalkouhai
Non-Binary
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They/Their/Them
Demisexual
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Post by UrLocalKouhai on Mar 29, 2016 20:10:45 GMT 8
Hello from the newest member of this page who has no idea what to begin with. I'm from Germany and my hobbies include watching Youtube videos (I'm a big fan of PewDiePie), blogging on Tumblr (my two blogs are frerarddestroya and assnut666) and listening to music (Lately I discovered K-Pop which I totally love) Also I enjoy writing stuff but I struggle a lot with that and have almost zero motivation at the moment. A coming out to my family and local friends didn't happen yet, only my best friend Ian who I met on Tumblr over one year ago knows about my gender identity. I always was uncomfortable with the fact that I'm a girl and should act like one. Like 6 months ago I googled and the word non binary/agender/genderqueer came up and that was definitely an answer for my questions. I don't feel like I'm a girl or a boy or a gender at all and I'm just living my life as a human. I am so sorry if I appear very shy and complicated. Last week I got diagnosed with depression and I am on my way to get meds and I hope that things get better soon. But my mailbox is always open and I'd love to make new friends here. Have a nice day!
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Any as long as it's polite
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Post by Shan on Mar 29, 2016 22:17:29 GMT 8
Welcome, we're all friends here, you can relax and become a part of this family. It's obvious to me according to what you have said about yourself that you fit in here perfectly, so welcome once again!
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Ember
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The Ever-Burning Ember
Posts: 47
Gender: Non-Binary
Presentation: Masculine
Presentation: Depends on the day. I keep a beard to look nice for work. It'd be a shame to waste such a fabulous beard.
Pronouns: Whatever fits your current perception of me as you're writing the pronoun.
Orientation: Not sure...
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Non-Binary
Masculine
Depends on the day. I keep a beard to look nice for work. It'd be a shame to waste such a fabulous beard.
Whatever fits your current perception of me as you're writing the pronoun.
Not sure...
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Post by Ember on Mar 29, 2016 22:28:23 GMT 8
Hello, new friend! I too am a fan of youtube. Based on you liking PewDiePie, I wanted to ask if you play any video games? I'm always looking for sparring partners in Hearthstone. Do you have a favorite K-Pop song you'd like to share? I'm curious! Same question for your writing, got anything you'd like to show off, friend? I'm with you on the coming out thing. Just take your time, friend! You're doing great! I'm proud of you for opening up to Ian! Also, I want you to know that your experience mirrors mine so closely it's not even funny. You are definitely not alone, my fellow human being! Thank you for affirming my existence with your own. I hope you find a similar peace as mine from knowing that you're a completely normal human having a completely normal human experience of gender. No need to apologize for being shy and complicated. I find that the most interesting people in life have the biggest thoughts, the deepest feelings, and the most confusing contradictions... But when you smooth out all the wrinkles and let that person show you who they really are, you just about always find something rare and incredibly beautiful (in the sense of artwork being beautiful, not feminine beauty per se). So take your time and open up to us, friend. I'm excited to meet you. I'm getting off track. What I want you to know is that you're not the only person here who has struggled with depression, and I can and will help you through your hard time if you need. Simply ask and I'll listen, friend. Also, I'm SO PROUD OF YOU FOR GETTING HELP. Good for you for getting on medication. Are you seeking out therapy as well? I'm going back to therapy myself this Friday. Wish me luck, friend! A few questions for you: What may I call you? Should I parse your username and call you Kouhai? I guess I only had the one question. Peace, friend! Welcome welcome welcome!
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Post by EchelonHunt on Mar 30, 2016 0:39:27 GMT 8
Welcome! I second what Ember asks about your preferred name I've been meaning to get into K-Pop and K-drama, the tv series poster for them always look so creative and alluring. Got any recommendations for K-Pop? I enjoy watching Youtube videos too! I like JackSepticEye, Markiplier, EricVanWilderman and occasionally, I'll check out PewDiePie Also, I love that your second Tumblr blog name is assnut666 I haven't come out to my family or all of my local friends yet either, so you aren't alone there! I don't think I'll ever be able to completely come out because my family in particular, they only believe in male or female. You might have better luck than me! I identify the same as you, in that I don't feel any gender at all. There's great threads to inspire writing motivation, we have role-play threads that can also double as introspection posts, check out The Unicorn Forest or The Deserted IslandI struggle with depression as well (still do) so it seems we have a fair bit in common! Please don't apologise for being shy and there's nothing wrong with being complicated. We're all complex in some way or another, nothing to be ashamed of! Hope to see you around Kind regards, Jacey
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Non-Binary
Sh'e, H'er, they them, she, he, whatever....
Bisexual
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Post by Trinity on Mar 30, 2016 5:17:03 GMT 8
Welcome!
Trust me you are not alone here...
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Post by Taka on Mar 31, 2016 19:55:10 GMT 8
kouhai, huh? that sounds kinda cute. though i'm more of a sensei than a senpai nowadays.
welcome to this board! i hope you find what you're looking for, perhaps even things you didn't know you were looking for. and don't hesitate to talk about things completely unrelated to gender identity as well.
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