Nonbinary ops

[Trinity]

In the blurry lines of nonbinary binarary trans there is a grey area i seem to live peacefully in.

But of late i notice in spite of my social fluidity and freedom, which i cherish and no longer fear in a full body transition cause its all me...in spite of this my body has gone way to female binary needs.

I no longer can acheive sexual climax without both fantasizing a full vaginal intercourse experience and without experiencing it as if i was post op.

I think transfolk get confused, thinking that makes someone binary trans.  Meanwhile insurance policies are written around full time social transition.  Binary social transition.  Against SOC 7 i believe.

Im just curious, if you could get all the ops safely and without pain or risk, would you?

I cannot in my current reality.  In a different one i would, and would be with "tops" in relationships.

Anyone else like this?  I expect Jayce is...

Trinity

[Ayla]

Having had ffs, breast reduction etc I wish to minimise future ops. Now whether this is because my wife would likely end our marriage or to avoid expense and trauma for marginal benefit is unclear to me. It may be that with greater acceptance and sexual fluidity our marriage would be less problematic post surgery so further ops would be less of a 'no go' area.

[Ativan Prescribed]

Mar 14, 2016 18:19:06 GMT 8 Trinity said:

I think transfolk get confused, thinking that makes someone binary trans.
Meanwhile insurance policies are written around full time social transition.
Binary social transition.  Against SOC 7 i believe.

Im just curious, if you could get all the ops safely and without pain or risk, would you?

The SOC 7 includes gender non conforming stuff.
Just peeked at it again, looks the same, 209 pages on pdf version (not including refs).
SOC 7 pdf

All op's have safety risks, and pain free is dreaming.
If there was no risk or pain, people would be getting all kinds of ops.

I'd fix my face up some, but NB looking, no more, if risk and pain free (and free).
Mostly to get rid of the old look, take twenty years off.
Get rid of facial hair, that'd be about it.

[Taka]

if magic was real, i'd change my body a whole lot.

but surgery comes with risk and pain.
so i'd rather be realistic about it.

if there were no social repercussions, and the whole family were all supportive (or at least not against), what surgeries would i want...?
uh... add that it has to be for free... not sure when i can hope to get that.

i'd want a hysterectomy. just to be rid of the thing, since i'm never gonna use it again.
would still keep the vagina though. and with the new possibilities that exist, i'd want phalloplasty.
but a mastectomy first, since those are actually in my way.

they all come with risk and pain, but the mastectomy would be worth it, and most likely the hysterectomy as well.
i'd take a lot of time to think about the last one after these two though...

[Shan]

The only op that would seem really worthwhile would be total skin replacement which would render a very youthful appearance. The reason I say this is because as we age the skin loses it's elasticity and becomes wrinkly looking in places like crepe paper. It grows all kinds of unsightly barnacles and discolorations. Unfortunately we only get one skin and once that's shot it stays that way. Stay out of the sun, those UV rays will age skin even faster.

[Trinity]

I downloaded it.

Funny i was offered referals to Marci Bowers and Mount Sanai for surgeries today

Didnt accept it but nice to know about the open door.

[Trinity]

Being nonbinary trans is really wild...

Just glad to be myself right now and to have all this freedom of choice. In presentations, surgeries, self perceptions. By taking away the pressure to conform we can see more clearly.

Although there is still plenty of pressure to conform both inside us and outside in society.

Ya think?