Being she and being free and fluid

[Trinity]

Got a few of us now that are kinda binary she or he in body and other things but are totally fluid and happy socially across spectrum.

I am becoming far more female in body and emotion, yet still enjoy fluid presentation.  And it all feels so normal now.

I am struck at times at how binary the she part is, and how fluid the social has gotten.

Its all so interesting.  I do love who i am becoming.  Or who i always was...

☺

Are you like that too?

[Ayla]

We are following scarily similar paths of discovery and of joy. Perhaps I have been more cautious, testing each step , stopping and sometimes retracing my steps, but progressing nonetheless. This time around I am very comfortable with the physical and cognitive/emotional changes. It feels right. It feels like I am honoring, recognising and at long last celebrating my true self.

Perhaps elves and fairies do have quite a bit in common.

Safe travels

Aisla

[Trinity]

[BarryD]

Mar 3, 2016 11:14:33 GMT 8 Trinity said:

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[BarryD]

I need some guidance. I have been madly in love with a gorgeous and sweet m2f non-op transgender. We have loved each other for a while now. But all of a sudden her family disapproves of our relationship. We are litterally being ripped apart from each other. I love her so much but I know I have to let her go or matters will only get worse. I will be okay with time. who can I talk to about this and how to move on. Maybe meet someone new.

[Trinity]

Feb 1, 2018 2:40:21 GMT 8 BarryD said:

I need some guidance. I have been madly in love with a gorgeous and sweet m2f non-op transgender. We have loved each other for a while now. But all of a sudden her family disapproves of our relationship. We are litterally being ripped apart from each other. I love her so much but I know I have to let her go or matters will only get worse. I will be okay with time. who can I talk to about this and how to move on. Maybe meet someone new.

If you love her stay with her.  She probably needs you pretty bad right now.

Abandoning her over family issues is not the way to go.

Depends on why the family is breaking you up.  Doesnt sound trans related.

Imo.



T.

[BarryD]

Feb 1, 2018 3:55:04 GMT 8 Trinity said:

Feb 1, 2018 2:40:21 GMT 8 BarryD said:

I need some guidance. I have been madly in love with a gorgeous and sweet m2f non-op transgender. We have loved each other for a while now. But all of a sudden her family disapproves of our relationship. We are litterally being ripped apart from each other. I love her so much but I know I have to let her go or matters will only get worse. I will be okay with time. who can I talk to about this and how to move on. Maybe meet someone new.

If you love her stay with her.  She probably needs you pretty bad right now.

Abandoning her over family issues is not the way to go.

Depends on why the family is breaking you up.  Doesnt sound trans related.

Imo.



T.

Thank you for the advice trinity. I do appreciate everyone here. I really didn't go far enough on my first post, so here goes. Her parents all of a sudden seen and talked Jesus and became instant guardians of all that is right. Being sarcastic of course. We snuck and were able to talk on the phone this morning, once we both stopped crying. I hardly cry over anything, but I was blubbering like a newborn this morning. we finally started talking and what I didn't say in my fist post is my Chrissie has 2 beautiful well behaved children that love me to death and the emotion is mutual. Well what she told me next nearly got me thrown in jail. Her judgmental, self righteous, hypocritical, bigot, going to hell and karma is a bitch parents gave her 2 and only 2 choices. #1- As they put it, she could move to California with them and be reformed(brainwashed/thought police) and live a quiet little life and not be a half breed slut and whore. #2-she could stay with me(the man she loves) and go to hell for the laying with a man at night and living in sin, and if she chose me, they were gonna use every resource they had available to them(which is quite a lot) and take her to court and take her children and move the to CA and never speak to their daughter again. They told her if she chose me she would dead to them.(what the hell am I, the plague?) They would won custody of the kids because of all the pull, money and clout they. Cue the tears again. I told her I would never stop loving her, but could not be responsible for her losing those 2 precious kids. So, being the responsible thing to do(not what I want), I walked away. I don't know if she still crying, but I haven't stopped all day. I have no more tears, my heart has been ripped from my chest and trampled on. I am emotionally numb and would love to(and I've thought about)catch them before they leave and show her dad what a real man is like and beat him within an inch of his sorry existence, But I know that will only get me thrown in jail. And my emotional state at the moment I probably would beat him to death. She's gone. I'll never forget the first time I met this beautiful goddess. We met at a straight cowboy bar and hit it off right away. We sat at a table for 3 and half hours and talked. Then we slow danced. God she felt like silk. If you would have told me that night or the first several months we dated she had some meat swinging between her legs, I probably would have laughed or kicked you ass. She was all woman. The only way I could have known was to run my hand up her skirt and grabbed me some. Chrissie never had any surgery to change her looks or figure. Not a scar any where. Well, we were out eating dinner one night(remember, we still haven't seen one another naked.) Mutual decision to wait a while and make sure we were gonna finish the race, Well, the time was here(I still didn't have a clue she was packing.) and she seemed very distant at dinner, and I ask her what was wrong? She said, nothings really wrong, I just need to tell you something about myself that you don't know. You know brain was coming with all kinda things she was gonna tell me. And none were close. She said I haven't lied to you and I never will but I haven't been forthcoming about certain things about myself, and I want to rip your clothes off and just have my way with you. So I have to tell you now before we go any further. so I said I love everything about you and that ain't gonna change ever. So she took a deep breath and said, i'm a non-op m2f transgender. I laughed pretty hard and only because I didn't what that meant. I said, you're what? Then she gave it to me. I have always been a woman inside and most of the outside. But I do have a little extra left over about mid way between my legs. Okay, now i'm picking my bottom lip up off the floor. And I was speechless for her must have seemed like an eternity. I was just thinking to myself, what does this mean, and does it matter and is it gonna hurt when it is pounding my ass? I actually felt like I loved her even more now, and felt closer to her. I cleared my head and we got out of bed 2 days later. That was absolutely the most satisfied I have ever been with any sexual experience. I couldn't wait for that pretty little mind to start running with sexual ideas, fantasies, fetishes. I just wanted to drink, eat and swallow everything she had inside, and I have a few occasions. Great stuff. She will always be a part of me.  My sexual identity, my soul, my very exsitance is will always belong to my Chrissie. I love you baby girl and always will. I hope you can find someone who can love you way I do.

[EchelonHunt]

Barry, if you don't mind me asking... how old are you and Chrissie? (By the way, you can sign in on the forum now, I approved your member registration request )

Because if Chrissie is an adult and the biological parent of her children, her parents should have no sway over the courts, no matter how much money they have. Any sensible judge would see that Chrissie is a well-rounded individual (and an adult if she's over 21) and that her parents are control freaks, wanting to control every aspect of her life.

If you feel that strongly about Chrissie, fight this. Don't let her give in to the parents ultimatum, don't let their fear and ignorance ruin both your lives. Fight for her and her children, then run far, far away from the influence of her parents.