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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:17:00 GMT 8
OMFG! Just OMFG! Dammit. Long hair is sexy, guy or girl, Trans or cis NB or Binary. Either long hair or bald. Nothing like rubbing a bald sexy person's head while they are going down on you. Nothing like grabbing a long haired person's hair either. And OMG it feel so good on smooth skin. OK enough of that. Wheewww. Almost too much there. But a suit with a proper haircut and a freakin' attitude to go with it. No thanks. If they use more hairspray then me then not really interested. If they use more hair product than me then not interested. Unless they themselves are trans women then I can be and have been a transbian. Love is love and love has no boundaries other than what we give it because "I ain't this or I ain't that." I am Jamie. Love is special and should not know any boundaries. Trans, cis, gay, lesbian or bi. As for the original question. I don't have to convince myself of anything other than being me without shame or apprehension or made to feel bad about myself. I am me and whoever don't like it can go "Sit and Spin" on their thumb, middle finger or a phallus. You're too funny, Jamie.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:26:31 GMT 8
OMFG! Just OMFG! Dammit. Long hair is sexy, guy or girl, Trans or cis NB or Binary. Either long hair or bald. Nothing like rubbing a bald sexy person's head while they are going down on you. Nothing like grabbing a long haired person's hair either. And OMG it feel so good on smooth skin. OK enough of that. Wheewww. Almost too much there. But a suit with a proper haircut and a freakin' attitude to go with it. No thanks. If they use more hairspray then me then not really interested. If they use more hair product than me then not interested. Unless they themselves are trans women then I can be and have been a transbian. Love is love and love has no boundaries other than what we give it because "I ain't this or I ain't that." I am Jamie. Love is special and should not know any boundaries. Trans, cis, gay, lesbian or bi. As for the original question. I don't have to convince myself of anything other than being me without shame or apprehension or made to feel bad about myself. I am me and whoever don't like it can go "Sit and Spin" on their thumb, middle finger or a phallus. You're too funny, Jamie. I know hon. But I am also serious too. You caught me. Congrats. Most people in person think think the same way. BTW I say the same shit to everyday people that I know too. Some don't get it but others do. But the whole thing is that we have to be ourselves regardless of what others may think about us. I stick up for shit like Gay marriage even though I believe marriage should be outlawed all across the board. And that we had a really good excuse when we are asked to marry our "better halves" . I am not looking to get married. Just divorce a while ago and just wanna' have fun.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:33:39 GMT 8
You're too funny, Jamie. I know hon. But I am also serious too. You caught me. Congrats. Most people in person think think the same way. BTW I say the same shit to everyday people that I know too. Some don't get it but others do. But the whole thing is that we have to be ourselves regardless of what others may think about us. I stick up for shit like Gay marriage even though I believe marriage should be outlawed all across the board. And that we had a really good excuse when we are asked to marry our "better halves" . I am not looking to get married. Just divorce a while ago and just wanna' have fun. You can be both; I'm one of the silliest people you will meet, yet I like going deep too. I always enjoy reading what you write.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:35:02 GMT 8
I've had such a bad day. Spending some time here lifted my spirits.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:51:54 GMT 8
I've had such a bad day. Spending some time here lifted my spirits. First off thank you. Second though. Don't we all find a little shelter with friends? Everyday life can be hard. Not everyone is trans so ain't it nice to spend time with trans friends? Bad days happen. They happen to everyone trans, gay, lesbian, bi, GQ, NB, Andro and even Cis. But friend should make a bad day better. I hate to say it but I had a pretty good day. I got misgendered dressed as a guy even. I got called her and then got called Ma'am. So today for me was a good day. Tomorrow maybe not so much. But I ride high when I can. Damn tomorrow may be hell for me. But I will take the good with the bad and flip everyone the bird that hates me. I'm not saying this is the right attitude for everyone but it has kept me for 40 some odd years.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 5:58:10 GMT 8
You have a great outlook, Jamie. ... and yes, so true. This place is like a shelter for me.... and even though I might be too tired to write much I like just being here, reading things... it feels like I can breathe when I'm here. You have become my dear friends. I treasure that.
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Post by Trinity on Nov 21, 2015 6:52:16 GMT 8
Its a family. You're in. So are the rest of the members here. But yeah, we are family. This is my home.... And we leave the front door wide open and set the table for you to come. Happy Trinity tonight. Its this kind of thread and seeing that difference made that means so much. Hey Jamie.... (flashes h'er legs) Attachment Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 10:38:32 GMT 8
Its a family. You're in. So are the rest of the members here. But yeah, we are family. This is my home.... And we leave the front door wide open and set the table for you to come. Happy Trinity tonight. Its this kind of thread and seeing that difference made that means so much. Hey Jamie.... (flashes h'er legs) You really need to learn how to shave those feet and toes Trinity.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 10:58:49 GMT 8
You have a great outlook, Jamie. ... and yes, so true. This place is like a shelter for me.... and even though I might be too tired to write much I like just being here, reading things... it feels like I can breathe when I'm here. You have become my dear friends. I treasure that. I don't know if I would go so far as to say I have a great outlook. Honestly I just don't give a damn. People can think of me how they want. Actually I really don't give a fuck. Fuck them if they do. I know who I am and what I am gender wise. If anyone can't accept that then screw them. One or the other or both or neither. Screw them. I will never bow to anyone unless they have a halo and then it is questionable then. But I expect no one to bow to me either even if I was the messiah or Missiah. I respect being who people truly are and not all the fake crap. Oh we can hide from our families, friends and so on. But here we have nowhere to hide. This place isn't as much a shelter as it is a venue to be true to yourself and everyone else here. Hell most people here know more about me than anyone else close to me. I almost told my Dad tonight. I had tears in my eyes trying and showed him Bailey on the net. I told him I was like her. He said she was pretty but don't think he really got it. I showed him smooth legs and underarms and maybe somewhat. I told him that my mom prayed for a girl and got her wish sort of...... I still don't think he gets that he has more of a daughter than son. Oh well. I am me.
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Post by Trinity on Nov 21, 2015 12:36:42 GMT 8
Its a family. You're in. So are the rest of the members here. But yeah, we are family. This is my home.... And we leave the front door wide open and set the table for you to come. Happy Trinity tonight. Its this kind of thread and seeing that difference made that means so much. Hey Jamie.... (flashes h'er legs) You really need to learn how to shave those feet and toes Trinity. Rofl
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 17:15:32 GMT 8
You have a great outlook, Jamie. ... and yes, so true. This place is like a shelter for me.... and even though I might be too tired to write much I like just being here, reading things... it feels like I can breathe when I'm here. You have become my dear friends. I treasure that. I don't know if I would go so far as to say I have a great outlook. Honestly I just don't give a damn. People can think of me how they want. Actually I really don't give a fuck. Fuck them if they do. I know who I am and what I am gender wise. If anyone can't accept that then screw them. One or the other or both or neither. Screw them. I will never bow to anyone unless they have a halo and then it is questionable then. But I expect no one to bow to me either even if I was the messiah or Missiah. I respect being who people truly are and not all the fake crap. Oh we can hide from our families, friends and so on. But here we have nowhere to hide. This place isn't as much a shelter as it is a venue to be true to yourself and everyone else here. Hell most people here know more about me than anyone else close to me. I almost told my Dad tonight. I had tears in my eyes trying and showed him Bailey on the net. I told him I was like her. He said she was pretty but don't think he really got it. I showed him smooth legs and underarms and maybe somewhat. I told him that my mom prayed for a girl and got her wish sort of...... I still don't think he gets that he has more of a daughter than son. Oh well. I am me. That is a great outlook! I wish I was more like that, hopefully I will be one day. Wow, that's a huge step. Good for you.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 21, 2015 17:27:00 GMT 8
Its a family. You're in.
So are the rest of the members here.
But yeah, we are family. This is my home....
And we leave the front door wide open and set the table for you to come.Happy Trinity tonight. Its this kind of thread and seeing that difference made that means so much. Hey Jamie.... (flashes h'er legs) Thank you! That means a lot.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 23, 2015 8:24:07 GMT 8
Hey everyone, it feels like it's been so long. I've been doing better these days. Less worried about labels and what I am and what I'm not. I'm just me no matter how much I worry after all. Starting to feel more like my carefree self. I think the best way for me to handle this stuff really is to cross that bridge when I get there Nothing wrong with just winging it sometimes!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2015 4:22:55 GMT 8
I don't know if I would go so far as to say I have a great outlook. Honestly I just don't give a damn. People can think of me how they want. Actually I really don't give a fuck. Fuck them if they do. I know who I am and what I am gender wise. If anyone can't accept that then screw them. One or the other or both or neither. Screw them. I will never bow to anyone unless they have a halo and then it is questionable then. But I expect no one to bow to me either even if I was the messiah or Missiah. I respect being who people truly are and not all the fake crap. Oh we can hide from our families, friends and so on. But here we have nowhere to hide. This place isn't as much a shelter as it is a venue to be true to yourself and everyone else here. Hell most people here know more about me than anyone else close to me. I almost told my Dad tonight. I had tears in my eyes trying and showed him Bailey on the net. I told him I was like her. He said she was pretty but don't think he really got it. I showed him smooth legs and underarms and maybe somewhat. I told him that my mom prayed for a girl and got her wish sort of...... I still don't think he gets that he has more of a daughter than son. Oh well. I am me. That is a great outlook! I wish I was more like that, hopefully I will be one day. Wow, that's a huge step. Good for you. Thanks lee. He didn't make the connection though. He does have Alzheimer's after all. Again as for the great out look? I guess you could say that. It takes a while and comes hard though getting an outlook like that. You will have the same outlook if you don't let it get to you. A person can only live one life and when you think about it, there is no way in hell that they can live your life along with theirs'. Some will hate you, some will despise you, some will feel sorry for you, some will want to be your friend because it is the "in thing" to do. Some will be attracted to you. some will fall in love with you, some will be curious of you and on and on. You have to live your life, no one else. Luckily with my personality and "Go Get Fucked" attitude and refusing to let someone hurt me by words. Hell I would rather be called a shemale or tranny instead of people using whispered tones, "That is a man." Maybe because I am not a man and not quite a woman either. I am trans. I just let people think what they want to think and see what they want to see. If someone calls me Sir then no big deal. If someone calls me Ma'am. Again no big deal. Usually its the way I am dressed but I do live in a pretty trans friendly area more or less. LGBT friendly for sure but not quite as understanding of the T part. But still. Hell during Mardi Gras a lot of straight guys will dress more female or out and out female and vice versa. You can't tell me that that isn't a release of sorts. You will get there. The more confident you become in yourself, the more you realize that you are the only one that has to live your own life and don't let ignorant people bring you down and never give them the satisfaction that they hurt you. Humans can be sadists at times. Some will say shit just to hurt you. Real friends though are one thing and it is all in joking around with one another but they would stick up for you against strangers. But strangers saying shit is a lot different. Usually they say shit because it is anonymous. Hell driving a truck and getting out and checking tires or anything else, I have been called a "Sidewalk Sissy"? I just always laughed it off. But it seems like someone else anonymously would say to the ignorant ass," Maybe you like Sidewalk Sissies." Then more would chime in and say like, "Yeah you probably can't get a pretty girl so you like the pretty Trannies." Or, "Hell she's prettier than my wife so fuck it." Driving gave me a really thick skin or even a thicker skin than I had before. Hell I have been called a pretty driver. When I tell them well you do know that I am not a woman, the answer was, " I know". Really? Maybe they were gay or actually thought I was pretty. Hell I was always clean for sure. I took a shower everday. Most drivers it is every other day and some ughh, once a week. The reason for all the too long paragraph before. Never underestimate yourself. JUst accpet yourself. That is the most important person that has to accept you. Everyone else is just either they will accept you or not. As long as you are comfortable totally out of the closet, The closet door open and the light on and let people make their own assumptions or just keep the closet door closed and open it for yourself for a little while. There are no wrong ways to be. Hell you can be all three to certain people. I am. Some people know the real me even in real life. Some I don't hide shit from but let them make thier own assumptions and others, I will never tell. If they find out then I will deny it and then they can either believe the lie or not. So your status don't have to be fully open or not, but it can be all three. I can live with that. But we all have to decide what we can live with according to our ownselves. Hell to people that I am not out too and hide it from, I have been called a sissy, gay, too girly and so on. It doesn't make me defensive and I think that drives them more nuts than if I totally opened up to them. Shit like, "You got hair like a girl." I'm like. "So what?" I have a family member that gives me hard time and I just ask her if she is jealous because she has hair like a guy. Then I add the cherry by asking if she is mad because I am actually prettier than she is. It is so hard being an ass but someone has to do it. That would be me.
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