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Post by Leena on Dec 21, 2021 1:32:20 GMT 8
I'm a lot less fluid than I was in 2015. I don't really feel like a guy ever, though I do sometimes feel the need to play the part if I'm doing something where I expect people are going to ask for ID or call me by my legal name.
I just see myself on the blurry line between nonbinary and binary trans. I can mentally step to one side or another for a time, but I end up going back to seeing myself as this.
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danishcouple
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Both afab have the x marker in transition to become hermaphrodite
Posts: 62
Gender: Non-Binary
Presentation: bigender
Pronouns: They/Their/Them
Orientation: Queer
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Post by danishcouple on Apr 30, 2022 0:41:08 GMT 8
We both philosophy a lot on the question the world above beeeing bigender, bigender the next level. Both we are truly once that the next level of beeeing bigender is beeeing Hermaphrodite. We are now bigender that means we are afab on testosterone without estrogen blockers and have had breast implants. But our gentials are still female. We both are now in a stage that we would transform further we want transform out of the bigender , and transform to become hermaphrodites. Discussed a lot but we want now change our gentials, we want keeping our full functional vaginas, and we go inside the procedure of vagina preserving phalloplasty the next 2 years so that we not only have a vagina but also have a functionally penis. After this stage we believe that we didn't can call us bigender any more, but that we are 100% hormonal surgical made hermaphrodites, and must call us hermaphrodites in te feauture
How do you think about us thoughts?
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Sh'e, H'er, they them, she, he, whatever....
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Post by Trinity on Apr 30, 2022 9:46:19 GMT 8
We both philosophy a lot on the question the world above beeeing bigender, bigender the next level. Both we are truly once that the next level of beeeing bigender is beeeing Hermaphrodite. We are now bigender that means we are afab on testosterone without estrogen blockers and have had breast implants. But our gentials are still female. We both are now in a stage that we would transform further we want transform out of the bigender , and transform to become hermaphrodites. Discussed a lot but we want now change our gentials, we want keeping our full functional vaginas, and we go inside the procedure of vagina preserving phalloplasty the next 2 years so that we not only have a vagina but also have a functionally penis. After this stage we believe that we didn't can call us bigender any more, but that we are 100% hormonal surgical made hermaphrodites, and must call us hermaphrodites in te feauture How do you think about us thoughts? Really up to you, regardless of what I think. I actually don't have an opinion, that's a lot of surgery, I changed my body to what I need personally, and am not intending to change it back. Its a personal decision and choice for you to make with your loved ones. Personally I just want to live my truth, and that is physically androgyne as far as I can tell. It's probably medically unsafe to go back. And under other circumstances its quite possible I would have gone farther and done something with the bottom, but that wasn't my path. Its all very physical with me really. Any spiritual stuff with this is also up to you... Your choices, your consequences, your life to live as best you can....
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Post by Leena on Apr 30, 2022 13:05:24 GMT 8
We both philosophy a lot on the question the world above beeeing bigender, bigender the next level. Both we are truly once that the next level of beeeing bigender is beeeing Hermaphrodite. We are now bigender that means we are afab on testosterone without estrogen blockers and have had breast implants. But our gentials are still female. We both are now in a stage that we would transform further we want transform out of the bigender , and transform to become hermaphrodites. Discussed a lot but we want now change our gentials, we want keeping our full functional vaginas, and we go inside the procedure of vagina preserving phalloplasty the next 2 years so that we not only have a vagina but also have a functionally penis. After this stage we believe that we didn't can call us bigender any more, but that we are 100% hormonal surgical made hermaphrodites, and must call us hermaphrodites in te feauture How do you think about us thoughts? It might have a different meaning in your language, but be aware the term "hermaphrodite" is very disliked by the English speaking Intersex community when applied to humans.
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Apr 30, 2022 14:17:45 GMT 8
It can be taken in different ways and to be sure it is seen as derogatory here, but in the overall general meaning of the post I think the point is made, different languages are just that. But much of our language is used in different ways by different groups of people here, it depends on where you are coming from. I think in the overall that just being open to others thoughts and feelings is what is really important, we all need to be more open to these kinds of things. some of the very worst things people say are just words, just like some of the best things people say can be, its what's in the heart that matters, not the words themselves. In the English language there are spaces filled with using words as a message of hate but its not the words, its the meaning people attach to certain ones. I still go by the response of derogatory things said to me with the same answer I always give,... Yes I am. It defeats the misery that some wish to inflict on me, it deflates their meaning of the language as a weapon.
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danishcouple
Junior Member
Both afab have the x marker in transition to become hermaphrodite
Posts: 62
Gender: Non-Binary
Presentation: bigender
Pronouns: They/Their/Them
Orientation: Queer
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Post by danishcouple on May 2, 2022 0:47:26 GMT 8
Everyone who have gentials of both binair genders called here hermafrodiete from out of the greek mythology. And it sounds better then intersexse.
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Post by korbin on Dec 17, 2023 22:55:34 GMT 8
I am basically straight male but after a while this fire extenguishes and i no longer attracted to women. Instead i rather meet guys. What i am in that state is more female than male.
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Post by francxs on Dec 18, 2023 6:45:02 GMT 8
I can certainly fluctuate pretty heavily. Sometimes in the past the change has been profound enough that I couldn't understand my prior gender identification as the definition suggests.
The reason I'd say I'm gender fluid or dual gender is that I'm more circumspect as an older person. I know thing will come and go a little.
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Dec 18, 2023 9:53:53 GMT 8
I am basically straight male but after a while this fire extenguishes and i no longer attracted to women. Instead i rather meet guys. What i am in that state is more female than male. There is a difference between bigender and bisexual, bigender is a gender that is closer to NB and of course bisexual refers to a sexuality that fluctuates. Know the difference between gender and sexuality, that will help a lot in moving forward. This is the huge dilemma that cis generally have about NB, they can't tell gender and sexuality apart and confuse the two, if you are on the right politically then you totally can't tell them apart. Think of it this way, you can be transgender as in a trans woman and want other women sexually, is no different than a cis woman wanting another woman sexually. What you perceive yourself as genderwise is not what determines who you want sexually, gender is one thing and sexaullity is anoother, to separate things. Most cis binary have times in their lives where they question their sexuality and then at times question their gender as well, its perfectly normal and means very little actually. Just because you think and then overthink something doesn't necessarily make it true, people question themselves over virtually everything in their lives, regardless if they deny it or not. Maybe being more honest with themselves would be a smarter thing to be rather than living in denial.
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Post by francxs on Dec 18, 2023 22:56:00 GMT 8
It’s also hard to figure yourself out when you don’t fit into either male/female binary OR the gay/straight binary. I tend slightly towards Herero-romantic I think. But otherwise I’m in the middle of most spectra.
So growing up, most women assumed I was straight and most men assumed I was gay. It messes with your sense of yourself when people reflect such different perceptions back at you. And that’s not throwing in the fact that I was also gender queer.
Sorting out who I was FOR MYSELF took a while.
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Post by Leena on Dec 18, 2023 23:51:23 GMT 8
Growing up most people assumed I was gay. The idea of being with a guy as a guy never really appealed to me. Maybe because I didn't want to be wanted for my masculine qualities. This didn't bother me as much with women, though it did at times.
I'm more open to the idea of being with men that since I've transitioned, though I still haven't really started dating again.
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