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Post by Muni on Dec 31, 2014 6:28:22 GMT 8
I found this forum a few days ago when I was looking for some support group/forum for non-binary people and now here I am I'm Muni, I'm 22yo and brazilian. There isn't a lot of specific groups for non-binary people here, as far as I know, let alone in my city. I had some bad experiences in LGBT communities in my city, for "not being trans enough" and/or for being bi. Somehow I never fit. Anyway, I started questioning my gender around 2011, and it haven't stopped ever since. I'm FAAB but I can't feel like I'm a woman. I say "can't" because I've tried hard, and to be honest I still try. I have this dream that one day I'll wake up "cis again" and will figure out it was just a big bad phase that I just kept dragging myself into, but it never works as simply as that. I present myself as n-b in pretty much all online spaces I use, but offline just for a couple of my closest friends. I'm not even slighly out offline yet. I'm not a man either. My identity is somewhere closer to a male spectrum than to a female one, but the only thing I know at this point is that I'm neither one of them. I'm not a woman, I'm not a guy, I feel like I'm living someone else's life. I'm not out except for those friends, so I present as female on my everyday life. Sometimes I'm okay but others (like now) I start getting dysphoric again and everything goes to shit. This year I started experienced genital dysphoria out of nowhere too, and that scares me a lot, because it only gets harder and harder to believe that it will stop someday if it only gets worse. I talk to some people about this whole gender thing but everytime I just feel like I'm annoying them because I just keep repeating the same old story. I hope that having a space to share and interact with other people who go through similar paths -- or not -- helps me a little.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2014 7:16:56 GMT 8
You are in the right place. We are about finding our truth in gender, often complex, seldom.easily labeled..we aren't into labels.
We are into celebrating who we are as unique and caring people of trans. As we get comfortable and as deceptions fade, we discover how our bodies work, where our social needs are, our romantic needs, our physical.
Nonbinary is total freedom. It is defining ourselves by being honest with ourselves, supported here emotionally with the experience of the forum.
Bisexuality and being trans enough simply are not issues. You be you. Enjoy it. Lots of us are Bi, we usually don't talk about it much, because it doesn't matter.
So my dear, you have found the Nonbinary forest of a very special group, all the colors of gender live here, from mtf to ftm Nonbinary style, or binary, and every conceivable fluid freedom in between. There is no pressure, there is only support as you search out and embrace your truth.
Welcome home.
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Post by Laura J on Dec 31, 2014 7:40:01 GMT 8
Hi Muni,
It's really nice to meet you, and a big welcome and hug for joining us..
I share some of your qualities in your introduction, and please don't feel alone, you've come to a special place of special people, and we are here for you in any way we can..
Please get comfy, and feel free to be yourself here..
Another Welcome.! And look forward to getting to know you..
Mark (NB)
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2014 7:50:35 GMT 8
Hey Muni, welcome! Pretty strange as I was just listening to Astrud Gilberto singing "The Girl from Ipanema" a few minutes ago.
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Post by Whisper on Dec 31, 2014 14:14:02 GMT 8
Hi muni. Lots of non-binary here. Join in anywhere. Many people from around the globe. 50+ members many active.
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Post by Ayla on Dec 31, 2014 14:51:09 GMT 8
Muni
Welcome to a very special place. A place which has acted like a magnet to attract some of the most loving and supportive folk that I have ever been blessed to meet. This was an unexpected gift to each of us. From all parts of the globe we have found connection in spirit and in quest. The quest that each of us has been presented and accepted is to understand, accept and to express our identity and lives as authentically and as powerfully as possible. That we have found kindred spirits and fellow travellers is largely due to the vision and leadership of Jacey who established and leads this forum. I hope that you find the love and support that abounds here and is available to us all.
Safe travels
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Post by Muni on Jan 2, 2015 11:15:02 GMT 8
(first of all, happy new year everyone ) Thank you all for welcoming me. I'm glad I've found a place where there's no such thing as a standard narrative you have to follow to earn respect.
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Post by Laura J on Jan 2, 2015 11:39:47 GMT 8
Happy new year Muni.! You're in the right place, No need to worry. We welcome you wholeheartedly. Feel free to jump in, make a few posts, and enjoy, or let us know anything we can help you with or give you our support.
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Post by Patty on Jan 3, 2015 0:32:25 GMT 8
Welcome Muni I am sure you will find this forum more like a family than a forum. We all respect each other and our differing views here and support each other. Patty
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Post by EchelonHunt on Jan 3, 2015 0:37:39 GMT 8
"My identity is somewhere closer to a male spectrum than to a female one, but the only thing I know at this point is that I'm neither one of them. I'm not a woman, I'm not a guy." I can relate to this statement, most definitely in the aspect that I need a male body to alleviate body dysphoria but do not identify as a man or woman.
You aren't alone with genital dysphoria, I am currently battling with this little cackling demon more and more lately. I am not sure if you have pondered about it or not but there is medical transition that can help to alleviate the genital dysphoria, of course, that all depends on what you would like remove or keep. Have you seen a gender therapist? They can give suggestions - for example, I find when I frequent Youtube channels about bottom surgery, I become very depressed because I wish I could have that surgery done. I also daydream a lot about having bottom surgery, which results in me obsessing about my genitals a fair bit, triggering a lot of dysphoria in the process. My non-binary therapist suggested I replace the negative talk "I hate my genitals" with something positive to keep my emotions calm until I am able to have surgery... I came up with, "I know I can get my genitals changed one day, I just have to be patient and gentle with myself until the time comes." My therapist said that was a good positive statement
Welcome Muni, I hope you will settle in, kick your feet back and maybe have a cuppa with us, if that is your cup of tea! Heehee!
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Post by Taka on Jan 9, 2015 22:05:04 GMT 8
welcome muni!
right now i'm wondering if it's time to feel paranoid, i know another muni too, on another forum. can't be you, i hope.
well, at least we don't have standard narratives here. should be kinda safe still..?
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Post by Metamorph on Jan 18, 2015 7:18:12 GMT 8
I am late, but I wanted to welcome you. I hope you have settled in and found support and friendship here.
I am faab. I consider myself ftm nonbinary. I can identify as male but there is a definite female aspect in me.
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Post by Deleted on May 21, 2015 18:03:04 GMT 8
I found this forum a few days ago when I was looking for some support group/forum for non-binary people and now here I am I'm Muni, I'm 22yo and brazilian. There isn't a lot of specific groups for non-binary people here, as far as I know, let alone in my city. I had some bad experiences in LGBT communities in my city, for "not being trans enough" and/or for being bi. Somehow I never fit. Anyway, I started questioning my gender around 2011, and it haven't stopped ever since. I'm FAAB but I can't feel like I'm a woman. I say "can't" because I've tried hard, and to be honest I still try. I have this dream that one day I'll wake up "cis again" and will figure out it was just a big bad phase that I just kept dragging myself into, but it never works as simply as that. I present myself as n-b in pretty much all online spaces I use, but offline just for a couple of my closest friends. I'm not even slighly out offline yet. I'm not a man either. My identity is somewhere closer to a male spectrum than to a female one, but the only thing I know at this point is that I'm neither one of them. I'm not a woman, I'm not a guy, I feel like I'm living someone else's life. I'm not out except for those friends, so I present as female on my everyday life. Sometimes I'm okay but others (like now) I start getting dysphoric again and everything goes to shit. This year I started experienced genital dysphoria out of nowhere too, and that scares me a lot, because it only gets harder and harder to believe that it will stop someday if it only gets worse. I talk to some people about this whole gender thing but everytime I just feel like I'm annoying them because I just keep repeating the same old story. I hope that having a space to share and interact with other people who go through similar paths -- or not -- helps me a little. Hi Muni See you are in here, wondering how you're doing, if it's not embarrassing you to ask. You ok?
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Post by Marooned In This Body on May 22, 2015 0:05:31 GMT 8
trinity is right being bisexual is not really what's important here, what is important is that you can feel comfortable in your own skin with who you truly are. non-binary has felt like the best place for me and believe me i'm still a bit confused about what's going on and it may take some time for you to figure it out, but that's okay. we are all here for you.
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