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Post by Gab on Aug 23, 2015 22:22:06 GMT 8
Hello, I'm Gab. 18 years old and from Brazil. For years I've had phases of social dysphoria, thinking that it'd be better if I was born a man. However, I didn't feel like a man either and transitioning has always been out of question. A few months ago I finally found out about non-binary genders and everything seemed to make sense for the first time. I've always been agender, but couldn't organize my feelings because I didn't know it was possible to be anything besides male and female. Currently, I'm slowly getting rid of the binary chain and trying to look more like my androgynous true self. I'm letting my eyebrows grow thicker, keeping my nails short and undone, trying male make up. Also, I had my hair, that had always been very long, cut shoulder length. However, all of this made me look more like a little girl than androgynous. Looking at the mirror still makes me sad and angry. Nevertheless, I'm sure time will tell me which way to go and how to feel better about myself.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Aug 23, 2015 22:32:08 GMT 8
Hi, Gab, Welcome to Non-Binary & Trans Folk Forum! You are not alone, I always felt a little bit off about identifying as a man, as I never felt like a man, nor know what being a man is. I identify as agender as well. Finding your presentation that best presents your androgynous true self will take time. Trial and error but you'll get there! If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask Kind regards, Jacey
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Post by Ativan Prescribed on Aug 24, 2015 2:44:16 GMT 8
Hey Gab, welcome! We're all on our journey's, sharing as we go. A lot of us really don't have much experience as male or female, some more than others, but the realization that we are different, each and every one of us. So feel free to just talk about yourself, ask the questions you have. We don't define ourselves within a framework of rules, we tend to break them more than anything else. It's in that kind of commonality that we have gathered together here, to exchange points of view of our journey's, we learn from each other. No rules here, just acceptance for who you are and who you will be in life. No right or wrong really, just a bunch of exceptional people, which you are now one of.
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Post by Ayla on Aug 24, 2015 4:48:08 GMT 8
Hi Gab
Great to have you join us. While we are unlikely to have your answers we have each had to ask similar questions of ourselves. Our answers vary, as do our journeys. Some have started early, others have spent much of their life never knowing why they felt out of place and dysphoric. This community has been a godsend to many of us. It is partly because we feel less alone, supported and have access to many great threads and posts made by folk in similar situations. Please remember no questions are inane or silly, if something is of interest, is worrying you or if you are seeking an opinion, shared experience or support we are here. Other folk helped us, it is the least we can do for others.
While I am maab I felt similarly to you. However mistakenly I assumed. that if I didn't feel male then I must be female, and rushed ahead with a binary transition. But this didn't work either. I felt like I was 'acting' or taking on a persona that was also a poor fit. Eventually I discovered that non binary identity existed, that this was ok and there were many ways to recognise, honour and to express this. The strange thing is that once I realised that I was really on a journey or process aimed at discovering, accepting and expressing my self, it all made so much more sense.
I wish you well in your journey. It will be full of challenge, joy and discovery. You will find yourself living a richer and more authentic life than you ever thought possible.
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Welcome Gab. You will find many here of kindred hearts, join in the journey, stay with us.
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Post by Gab on Aug 29, 2015 10:59:57 GMT 8
Thank you so much for the warm welcome. You're all so supportive, it made me feel well and have hope again, even after many bad days.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 2, 2015 3:45:46 GMT 8
Hello, I'm Gab. 18 years old and from Brazil. For years I've had phases of social dysphoria, thinking that it'd be better if I was born a man. However, I didn't feel like a man either and transitioning has always been out of question. A few months ago I finally found out about non-binary genders and everything seemed to make sense for the first time. I've always been agender, but couldn't organize my feelings because I didn't know it was possible to be anything besides male and female. Currently, I'm slowly getting rid of the binary chain and trying to look more like my androgynous true self. I'm letting my eyebrows grow thicker, keeping my nails short and undone, trying male make up. Also, I had my hair, that had always been very long, cut shoulder length. However, all of this made me look more like a little girl than androgynous. Looking at the mirror still makes me sad and angry. Nevertheless, I'm sure time will tell me which way to go and how to feel better about myself. Sorry for the late welcome but WELCOME.
OMG there are a lot of beautiful transwomen that come from Brazil so it would go to say that there are some really hot transguys that come from there too. Or just beautiful/hot people from your country. Time will tell. It is always changing but don't be surprised if the changes start lasting longer on one side and shorter on the other in due time. I will use myself as an example. I have a wonderful opportunity and have been posing as a guy. Still with long hair but hairy legs, and underarms. Two days ago I couldn't take it anymore and started my beauty regime again. Shit I have four hairs that grow on my ankles and ten that grow on the back of my calves roughly. My friends and band mates still made fun of me so Phuckit. Let 'em laugh or give me a hard time with totally hairless legs. I like the feeling of cleanliness of being hairless better anyway. But still love guys with or without body hair. So whatever makes you feel better about yourself. I am bi so a woman with body hair don't bother me and a guy without don't bother me. If hair on someone else was my main worry then that would make me a little shallow, wouldn't it? But anyway. I have a big mouth but still welcome with open arms.
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