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Post by julie456 on Aug 10, 2015 14:15:05 GMT 8
Hi! Another non-binary person here. Was searching for a place to chat with other non-binary people and share thoughts on gender and sexuality ^^
My name's Julie and I identify as feminine gender fluid. Some days I feel more female and other days I feel more male, but I've always been very feminine in both personality and in appearance. I suppose "technically" I was born male, but I've always had a more feminine personality, even preferring the company of mainly females. But, I've always felt odd because I feel like my mind switches between identifying as male or female. Even though these days I almost explicitly wear female clothes, I still feel male some days, but I might not other days.
It's kind of hard for other people to understand, I've had friends and even an old therapist tell me that I'm just a transwoman, even though I don't always identify as a woman or even really desire to be completely female. Idk, maybe some part of me just doesn't want to completely change, but for now I just feel gender fluid, or maybe just as a femboy? idk.
It's been a tough year for me though. Pretty much have just been suffering from a gender identity crisis, lost contact with some family members because of how I dress, and a lot more stuff... Can't really talk to anyone I know irl because of drama, so I look forward to talking to you guys! ^^
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Post by Ayla on Aug 10, 2015 16:03:09 GMT 8
Hi Julie
Glad you found us. Suspect that many of us will have a lot to discuss and to share. Non binary seems to be a real challenge for the binary folk to understand. Folk like to push other folk into categories, it seems to save them a lot of stress, discomfort or self inquiry.
However understanding yourself, then accepting yourself are the first steps - then after this process or journey, just being and expressing yourself no longer seems to be such a big deal.
Once I understood that I wasn't MTF, and MTNB confused folk, I just went with m2me. At the end of the day I just wish to be authentic and to be accepted. I won't let gender define or limit me - I am human and I will access those parts of the human experience (m, f or other) that I feel reflect my self. To do or to be otherwise, makes me feel like a fraud and inauthentic.
Looking forward to the discussions!
Safe travels
Aisla
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2015 18:25:32 GMT 8
We certainly understand that scenario.
Welcome.
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Post by Mingma on Aug 10, 2015 19:57:33 GMT 8
Hello Julie, There is no need to destroy any piece of who you are to discover yourself. There actually is no logical reason for anyone not to embrace both the feminine and the masculine, it is to my way of thinking a more natural and reasonable manner of living. I usually look like a woman because that is for me more fun and closer to the core, but the piece of my personality that retains the flavor of a man is no less valuable and no less authentic. Welcome to the world of acceptance of self in all its confusing ambiguity. The ambiguous nature of gender fluidity is the exploration of self in the gestalt and the view from the trough between polar and binary opposites is lovely.
Best, Ming
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