Often people will think of gender related things as absolutes, when they give no such absolutes for most everything else.
The news often projects this absolute idealism that fails again and again.
If they gave just one tenth of that absolutism towards gun laws we wouldn't have half the gun deaths and we wouldn't have guns as the leading cause of death for children, we have failed our children and republicans are desperate to blame it now on trans because they have nothing more to offer.
The effect is to find a scapegoat for their failings and the news media for playing both siderisms.
It is in reality one of the most considered things people go through in life, when you cast doubt over people thoughts, it will lead to confusion and cowardice in thinking.
The only people who who think in terms of absolute gender are the coward republicans who are over and over again of being the thought police when they are just as likely to be LGBTQ as anyone else, they are cowards for denying this outwardly as well as inwardly.
It is perfectly fine to question your gender and it is perfectly fine to draw your own conclusions, live a happy life and not one restricted by the failures of republicanism.
If you are a thinking god has anything to do with it, know that according to the christian right that god does not make mistakes, you are perfect in gods eyes, you are only imperfect but still less so in the eyes of republicans, the real snowflakes of society, they condemn everyone but themselves.