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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2015 5:46:02 GMT 8
I don't have much choice! Lol. I can rarely o by myself, so I don't hold out much hope for post op. It's ok tho. I enjoy that part vicariously. If my partner is satisfied it makes me feel very good. My serums on E are way up there, 350 is lowest point... and if I am tired, forget it. But if not, boom is a whammy. Which is a contributing factor to keeping the thing. And I think looking like that is really cool anyway. Preops are sexy as heck. I hope you boom girl... and i am still a bit jealous.
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Post by Leena on Apr 3, 2015 12:28:15 GMT 8
Let me put it this way. For me to go boom, it does not happen unless in fantasy I am dissassociated from my, ummm, crap I hate the word. It is a constant fantasy that it be turned inside out and that I experience intercourse as a female bodied and orgasmed person. Is it painful to see the thing? No. But would it be better not to have what I consider now to be more of an extended clitorus? Change it to a neo vagina? Hey, yeah, would be great. But not dysphoria driven. The rest of the body is a totally different matter. That is a constant fantasy with me too, is that dysphoria? I don't know, I'm pretty much constantly horny thinking about that. I am sometimes able to dissaociate from that by just focusing on the woman I'm with, or want to be with, sometimes not. I'm very fortunate to not be dysphoric about the rest of my body, but I think that is mostly because it isn't all that masculine of a male body.
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Post by Kira on Apr 3, 2015 18:25:35 GMT 8
I don't have much choice! Lol. I can rarely o by myself, so I don't hold out much hope for post op. It's ok tho. I enjoy that part vicariously. If my partner is satisfied it makes me feel very good. I couldn't have said it better, I'm glad I'm not alone in this, but in my case it is mostly psychological I think. I'm hoping post op things will change. I am 12-18 months away from my op now, and looking into different methods. I really want the version where a pedicle flap is formed from the urethral tissue, which has the effec of producing moisture inside, as well as increasing sensitivity and they can also use the remaining 2 thirds of the glans that is normally thrown away, to create a cervix which again increases sensitivity greatly and makes vaginal O more likely. I think this will give the best chance of being orgasmic after. The problem is, in the UK, as its not paid for at point of service, you usually get the op that they want to perform than the one that you ask for. I hear that 80% or people are clitoraly orgasmic after the op and 5% are vaginally orgasmic. Still, its not too much of an issue. I dont even consider my o to be part of sex, becuase it never happens, I don't think about it, unless the other person trys to make it happen, which has happened a couple of times and it makes things really really uncomfortable for me and I wish that they wouldnt.
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Post by Patty on Apr 3, 2015 18:52:55 GMT 8
For me I found it is totally in my mind.Ask me what it feels like to be a male or female I really don't know.Ask what it take to get off and I can explain in detail.Know your mind and body and what each button does and wonderful things happen. As a traditional male top nothing much but a long ride, flip me over and my mind would go into overdrive, swap parts with my partner and be in heaven.Is that female ? I don't know but it sure makes a big difference in my response.Flip me on my tummy and I can break glass over and over again . I found that sweet spot in my mind that opened or lit up all the buttons and enabled my response.It did take a while and a lot of practice :)plus a very loving and caring partner. I could never do it alone my concentration was always broken. With my partner I was able to concentrate or focus on the intensity of the intimacy and find the path to the rainbow and when the sky is full of them you know your there. Patty
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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2015 20:48:53 GMT 8
There are certain things that I'd pay anything to get. The right surgery is one of them. and Patty, I always wondered about the cracks in your bedroom window. And kitchen. And car. And tractor.... gee girl...
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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2015 21:42:52 GMT 8
I don't o during sex send haven't for years, but it's not the point of it for me. Loving who you are with and being loved is really the bottom line anyway with the warmth and intense shared emotions, the O is simply the icing on the cake but not entirely necessary as we know that many cis women have never experienced O for various reasons in spite of an active sex life, which doesn't detract in any way from their love for their partner. Men on the other hand live for the O, that's the absolute bottom line the penultimate apex of their sexual experience, beyond that little else matters, that's why so many males are really pretty sorry love makers and miss out on so much more in a relationship.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Apr 3, 2015 21:43:29 GMT 8
I have orgasms but they only feel half-amazing. It feels like they have the potential to be out-of-this-world amazing that I have yet to experience. I can only hope that getting surgery to correct my body, aligning my body as the physical sex it has to be... that things will improve dramatically in the sex department. Personally, sex is not that big of a deal for me. It is purely self-gratification... however as I am currently dating a girl, this might change.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2015 21:56:49 GMT 8
Hrt changed it alllwith me. Boom is not so important, intimacy is. But estrogen booms are mind blowing for me. My back arches 6 inches off the bed.... T made me very horny and visually out of control on lust. Thank god that changed. So many hormonal changes...omg. Names in the snow... But no snow here... Isn't it wonderful we get to fix our bodies?
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Post by Leena on Apr 4, 2015 11:27:55 GMT 8
I'm more like 12-18 years from my op, in the US, you pretty much have to always pay for it your self. I've never really liked the idea of some of the specifics, why is 2/3 of the glans thrown away, that would not make me feel like a woman, who has all of those nerve endings, and more. I don't know that I can handle not being orgasmic, maybe I'll feel differently if I get to the point where surgery is even an option for me. Since I can't afford it, the only real option I have is to try to accept what I have, for now anyway
I'm more like 12-18 years from my op, in the US, you pretty much have to always pay for it your self. I've never really liked the idea of some of the specifics, why is 2/3 of the glans thrown away, that would not make me feel like a woman, who has all of those nerve endings, and more. I don't know that I can handle not being orgasmic, maybe I'll feel differently if I get to the point where surgery is even an option for me. Since I can't afford it, the only real option I have is to try to accept what I have, for now anyway.
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Post by Kelly on Apr 4, 2015 12:53:36 GMT 8
My physical dysphoria is and always was essentially nil. What I always had issue with was the way the world perceived me, that I knew wasn't right, but up until a few years back, I didn't know how to fix that. Then I found there was an answer, it was called transition. Now, I've not done a lot of the things associated with a "standard" mtf transition, but I've come out the other end a happy, well adjusted person - and the world seems to get me now.
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Post by Kelly on Apr 4, 2015 13:09:48 GMT 8
I couldn't have said it better, I'm glad I'm not alone in this, but in my case it is mostly psychological I think. I'm hoping post op things will change. I am 12-18 months away from my op now, and looking into different methods. I really want the version where a pedicle flap is formed from the urethral tissue, which has the effec of producing moisture inside, as well as increasing sensitivity and they can also use the remaining 2 thirds of the glans that is normally thrown away, to create a cervix which again increases sensitivity greatly and makes vaginal O more likely. I think this will give the best chance of being orgasmic after. The problem is, in the UK, as its not paid for at point of service, you usually get the op that they want to perform than the one that you ask for. I hear that 80% or people are clitoraly orgasmic after the op and 5% are vaginally orgasmic. Still, its not too much of an issue. I dont even consider my o to be part of sex, becuase it never happens, I don't think about it, unless the other person trys to make it happen, which has happened a couple of times and it makes things really really uncomfortable for me and I wish that they wouldnt. Why do they not use the extra? Suporn does, at least partially, during the creation of the "Chonburi Organ". The main reason for not using a pedicle flap from urethral tissue is that they often caused more complications than it was worth. Same with the creation of a 'cervix'. And no, surgical techniques have not improved to the point where the separation of the 2 pieces of glans will result in both being sensate. Another thing to consider, is that very few cis women are actually vaginally orgasmic. The stats I've seen suggest that 95% of post-op trans women are orgasmic.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2015 18:10:29 GMT 8
For clarity is it 95%%do not have vaginal orgasm or is it 95% do have vaginal orgasm?
The more I hear the more I will remain a no op.
And honestly, it doesn't seem to be me anyway, to have the neo.
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Post by Kelly on Apr 4, 2015 20:20:08 GMT 8
Sorry, that typo muddled things a bit. The stats I've seen suggest that 95% of post-op women are orgasmic, although whether that is clitoral or vaginal is unspecified.
And, as I mentioned, few cis women achieve orgasm through purely vaginal stimulation. As for cervical sensation, most cis women I know say that the only thing they feel from it is pain when a guy pokes against it - it's not an organ intended to give pleasure.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 4, 2015 21:19:59 GMT 8
Thanks.
Well that makes things interesting.
And encouraging for many, hope those who are having trouble with it get there.
The bottom line is probably letting go, for everyone. Permission to feel. To be. To fully let go and surrender your body to its sexual needs, without commenting on that in your head.
Personally I am keeping the penis and going for the full look that is female with the attachment. Because I think that is sexy and having a vagina just wont look right on me.
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Post by Kelly on Apr 5, 2015 4:15:43 GMT 8
Thanks. Well that makes things interesting. And encouraging for many, hope those who are having trouble with it get there. The bottom line is probably letting go, for everyone. Permission to feel. To be. To fully let go and surrender your body to its sexual needs, without commenting on that in your head. Personally I am keeping the penis and going for the full look that is female with the attachment. Because I think that is sexy and having a vagina just wont look right on me. If it aint broke, don't fix it.
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