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Post by Ayden on Sept 25, 2015 12:31:44 GMT 8
Soooo here goes nothing!
My name is Kelsey, but since finding my gender identity, I've adapted a more fitting name. Ayden. So far I've only been having my strongly supportive boyfriend call me this and of course online also. I'm 25 years old and I live in Des Moines, Iowa with my long term boyfriend and our five cats (and his sisters cat) lol in our new condo. I was adopted when I was a week old after being born in Waterloo, Iowa. My parents were 16 and 18 when they had me and I have always loved them for the what they did for me. I have depression, border line bi polar, mood disorder NOS, PTSD, ADD and ADHD combined type, Pervasive developmental disorder, Social diorders, anxiety, joint problems, arthritis in my lower back along with a bulging disc in my lumbar. So I do have a lot of things to deal with without a change in my gender identity. LOL But I'm still kicking!
Thanks to Ruby Rose and Miley Cyrus, I became aware of the spectrum of gender identities. I now identify as a genderqueer female. I recently chopped of my long hair and opted for a more "masculine" haircut, I'm in the process of losing weight, changing my clothing style, and I will be ordering a prosthetic penis. I am still quite satisfied with my female parts so I do not identify as trans in any way. I do tend to express more masculine than feminine now though.
So far I'm only out to my boyfriend and he has told his family so that they don't question me and put my in an uncomfortable spot as we see them weekly. I know that my adoptive parents would be fine with this seeing as I was raised attending an open and affirming church and household. I just don't feel quite ready yet. As for my biological father and siblings, I know they're accepting of me but since I've just met them this past year.
Anyways, that's a little bit about me....
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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2015 18:08:30 GMT 8
Hi Ayden, welcome.
Theres lots of support in here on all kinds of levels. Its great to have you open up to us and share yourself.
You'll find no matter what our trans or nb walks are, there is a special bond and understanding. For the quiet or the vocal, we all understand and care.
Blessings dear.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Sept 25, 2015 18:50:00 GMT 8
Welcome Ayden! Sorry about the sign-up process, I have put in the Registration message that the gender can be changed once approval goes through, I didn't think to put it in there but hopefully, this will ease anxiety for new members That's wonderful that you've found yourself. There is no rush to come out, take your time and only do so when you are comfortable If you don't mind me asking, which prosthetic penis will you be ordering? A STP (Stand-to-pee), a packer or both? If you're looking at STP, I made a thread about all the possible ones you can buy - some are even packer-friendly. Speaking of packers, I should put together a info thread about them too! Ooh, a poll! Never tried one of those before, they look neat I identify as non-binary (specifically genderless) & transgender (my body has to be male, irregardless of my (a)gender identity) so I wouldn't be able to pick between the two. I am a femboy which does describe my physical nature to a T... 'cept of course, the boy part is a work-in-progress! You will find that many people here hold little importance on labels and instead be descriptive. While labels can be helpful, they can also easily be turned into another restricting box as female and male have been. I know I ran into that problem with identifying as FTM, I found I wasn't 100% masculine or male! Finding the non-binary label opened my eyes and allowed me to express myself freely. I even learned to love myself. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact me or other members. We don't bite! Kind regards, Jacey
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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2015 19:33:40 GMT 8
Lol i have a funny reaction when you folks start talking about penis... Ummm.... Seriously Ayden its really great here and we are happy to have you. Trinity
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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2015 19:36:20 GMT 8
I need to check both nonbinary and trans though... So i chose nonbinary.
Labels fail me...
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Post by Ayden on Sept 26, 2015 0:05:22 GMT 8
Thanks for responding guys! Yes the email you sent me helped! A lot! I was thinking about a STP that I could wear 24/7 if I wanted. Also one that has an "erection rod" as my boyfriend and I are into BDSM and we would both benefit from that LOL I haven't decided on an exact brand yet though so I do still need some opinions.
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Post by EchelonHunt on Sept 26, 2015 0:30:13 GMT 8
The Peecock Gen2S is IMHO, perfect for 24/7 packer, play (for sex lol) and STP. I don't use the harnesses that come with it, too fiddly so I just get men trunk briefs that are form-fitting. The company recently released Peecock Gen3 that has a flexible erection rod (can be removable) that can curve up, straight or down. I have the Peecock Gen2S but it just has a straight erection rod (removable as well), it's so cool to feel it flaccid and put the rod in, bam, insta-erection. For some reason, the tactile sensation of running my fingers along it is amazing. Makes it feel like it's a part of my body.
Just wish it could be permanently attached though haha but that's just bottom dysphoria speaking.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 26, 2015 3:22:36 GMT 8
OK so I voted trans because that does encompass non binary too. But Like Trinity I'm nonbinary Trans.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 26, 2015 5:52:44 GMT 8
Lol put it together its a whole one.
Add you and me and the rest of this group and its one heck of a party.
Its friday...
Woooo hooooo
...not to derail the thread...
Play time!
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Post by Ayden on Sept 26, 2015 10:26:04 GMT 8
haha thanks! I'll definitely look into that kind. How much was yours?
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Post by EchelonHunt on Sept 26, 2015 10:34:28 GMT 8
It was expensive. Like roughly $269 since I got two harnesses and the pleasure kit as well (the price includes shipping and Australian dollar conversion hurts me real bad lol) I got beige colour cus I thought it would match my skin tone but wish I'd gotten light beige. Ah well, mistakes happen. If that's too expensive, I found Bendy Buddy - Pack & Play, it's US $39 + shipping.
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Post by Ayden on Sept 26, 2015 13:00:54 GMT 8
Oh no lol price isn't that big of a deal for this purchase! I'm willing to fork over what I need to for a great product and for my happiness! Lol
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2015 0:08:32 GMT 8
When it comes to getting what we need that way i think most would pay anything.
I pay that much on hrt every month and its worth it.
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Post by Ayden on Sept 27, 2015 0:47:21 GMT 8
Excuse me for asking since I\I'm new and all lol but whats hrt?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 27, 2015 1:01:24 GMT 8
The Peecock Gen2S is IMHO, perfect for 24/7 packer, play (for sex lol) and STP. I don't use the harnesses that come with it, too fiddly so I just get men trunk briefs that are form-fitting. The company recently released Peecock Gen3 that has a flexible erection rod (can be removable) that can curve up, straight or down. I have the Peecock Gen2S but it just has a straight erection rod (removable as well), it's so cool to feel it flaccid and put the rod in, bam, insta-erection. For some reason, the tactile sensation of running my fingers along it is amazing. Makes it feel like it's a part of my body. Just wish it could be permanently attached though haha but that's just bottom dysphoria speaking. I got a slightly used one that is a little less than average size but will let it go really cheap. hell I will even trade it with a vagina. Just whoever buys or wants to trade it has to pay for the surgeries though. Oh hell we can go in half and half. Oh and as is so no bitching about lemons later or take backs. Just joking and maybe not a good one even but hell we have to laugh sometimes. And wouldn't it be nice if we could just trade like that?
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